10 Of the Best Beginner Strap-Ons for Lesbians

Ahhh, the magic of firsts. The first meeting, the first date, the first kiss, the first sexual encounter with your lover, and the first strap-on. 

Wait, what? You heard us right. The first strap-on. Women claim that wearing a strap-on creates many pleasurable feelings, including empowerment. And empowerment is s-e-x-y. 

Wet For Her is a women-owned company with your orgasms high in mind. They specialize in quality products for the queer community. They also know that buying a strap-on for the first time can be intimidating. So let's talk about where to start, then take a peek at the best beginner strap-ons and dildos.

Beginner Strap-On 101

If you feel intimidated or anxious about trying a beginner strap-on for the first time, you are NOT alone.

You've got this new dick, you've never used it before, it's attached to your hips, engaging muscles you didn't know you had, so don't be surprised if you're sore the first few times.

Here are some easy steps you can take to alleviate the stress and the unknown of your new strap-on and harness before introducing it in the bedroom. Doing this will create knowledge, familiarity, and comfort:

• Attending a how-to workshop online or in-person is a great place to start.
• Wear it around the house to get used to how it feels and moves
• Masturbate it on
• Practice putting it on and taking it off
• Choose the proper harness is vital for your comfort and pleasure
• Size matters, so don't reach for the biggest dildo until you know what your partner enjoys.
• Allow your partner to feel it and hold it. Dildo blow jobs are super hot!

Harness Your Inner Goddess

There are so many harnesses to choose from, so ask loads of questions when buying a beginner strap-on and harness set.

1. Panty O'Ring Harness 

If you wear the panties around the house, this o'ring harness is for you! It's aesthetically pleasing, practical, and made to move with you. It's perfect for beginners or those pinching some pennies.

2. Tomboi Original Brief Strap-On O'Ring Harness 

The sporty-style pant harness slips on and off like underwear. It's lightweight and breathable and moves with your body comfortably and securely. The stretchy ring means a variety of toys can be inserted and removed with ease.

3. Boxer Brief Black O'Ring Harness 

The Boxer harness is simply the best and most comfortable product in its class. This new generation of harnesses can easily host the sex toy of your choice in the o'ring. This soft boxer brief harness brief can be worn as underwear throughout the day and night. Compatible with most Wet For Her strap-ons and double dildos, and great for beginners.

4. Brief Packer O'Ring Harness 

This brief harness is wildly comfortable and offers the same features as the #3, but in a brief style. It's also compatible with most strap-ons and double dildos by Wet For Her. 

5. Strap And STP Packer 

Feel like taking your dick on a date? This versatile strap STP and packer has a simple yet effective design. The packer gives the wearer control over the size and look of the bulge. It's perfect for packing in boxers or without underwear!

6. Strap-On Dildo, 5.1-inch 

"The Five" is a Wet For Her creation that has been created with simplicity and versatility. It can be used on its own or with an O-ring harness. It has a broad and flattened base which provides maximum stability and optimum grip. It comes in a variety of colors and is Phthalate, Latex, Paraben & fragrance-free.

7. Rainbow Strap-On Dildo, 5.8 Inch 

You'll love this strap-on dildo that features a bright rainbow. Be loud and proud under the sheets! This dildo is handcrafted and made of 100% silicone. It has a soft texture while being firm and flexible.

8. Union Vibrating Double-Dildo 

While not necessarily considered a strap-on, the possibilities are endless with this Wet For Her exclusive vibrating dildo! "The Union" is a double-ended dildo that doubles the fun and pleasure for you and your partner. It's super soft and malleable. And check this out: It ALSO VIBRATES! How can you say no?

9. Shilo Strap-On Dildo And Packer 

The Shilo is incredible. It can bend but stays in that position due to a memory core inserted in the middle. It will fit in your underwear packer without looking strange. Bigger, of course, than a standard packer but way smaller than a regular dildo. It comes in various colors, so express yourself!

10. Strap-On Dildo Dilators 5-Piece Set 

This deluxe silicone dilator set was created to assist with discomfort or tightness during vaginal penetration. The collection contains five graduated dilators designed to stretch and train the vaginal muscles gently and gradually. Each of the five dilators features a tapered tip for comfort.

Talk It Out

Who's going to wear it? Well, there's no one scenario-fits-all here. Some beginners to strap-on play prefer clear lines of who's the giver and who's the receiver. In comparison, other couples discover that strap-on sex suits them both.

Slow 'N Steady

Since you can't readily feel what's happening inside your lover's vagina with a strap-on, you need to go sloooooow, at first. And? You're going to need more lube than you think. We'll say it again, you're going to need more lube than you think.

If At First, You Don't Succeed...

If something isn't working? That's normal, so don't take it personally. Because once you find your groove? It's GAME ON, and there's no turning back.

If strap-on play isn't working after a couple of sessions, don't fret. It could be the harness, the dildo, the angle, or maybe you need to add a bullet vibrator to get you both off? The sky's the limit.

Don't forget to clean your toy and harness regularly. 

Trying a Beginner Strap-on Can be Revelation

Adding strap-on play to your sex life can be a revelation. It offers penetration, mind-blowing orgasms, connection, and sexiness to the bedroom, cabin, hotel room, or wherever you might be getting it on. 

Wet For Her is here for you and your questions. They even have an Orgasmic Loyalty Program. So sign up and orgasm on dear queer, orgasm on.