How to ride a dildo

How to ride a dildo

When you first see a dildo, it’s pretty obvious what it is and how it could be used. This is true, but, if we go under the covers (pun intended) we soon discover that there is a lot more to discover in the world of dildos and how to ride them for maximum pleasure.

Certain activities are naturally intuitive, like walking, riding a bike or indeed riding a dildo.

If we look at walking, it’s something we do intuitively, does it mean we are doing it optimally, probably not. There are ways to improve walking skills, from posture to correctly setting our feet down to our choice of footwear.

In a similar way, it should be pretty straightforward how to ride a dildo and in principle it is, but just as in walking, it can be better when armed with some dildo knowledge.

Once we delve under the covers we soon learn that there are a lot of dildo variations, sizes, shapes, materials, techniques and even technologies involved. Dildos have come a long way baby!

To begin with, let’s explore popular types of dildos available, how they are different and how to get the maximum satisfaction from them.

Let’s look at the different types of dildos available for your riding pleasure

Double dildo

If you feel like getting into a bit of threesome fantasy without the threesome, a double dildo can really hit the spot. With the double dildo you can enjoy double penetration (vaginal and anal) and fulfil the threesome fantasy with ease.

Suction cup dildo

Suction cup dildos are attached to flat surfaces like walls or table tops and then you can ride them like a penis. One of the beauties of suction cup dildos is that your hands are free to caress your erogenous zones while you pleasure yourself with the dildo. One very hot suction cup method is to attach it to a mirror, ride it, glance back and enjoy the view!

Strap on dildo

The strap-on dildo has been around for a while now and never loses its popularity. Satisfy your partner with penetration and enjoy clitoral stimulation at the same time. Strap-on dildos are attached to a harness that the wearer puts on. It can be a bit fiddly but once it’s on correctly and comfortable, you’re ready for some action.

Strapless strap-on dildos

Strapless strap-on dildos work differently to a regular strap-on dildo that is attached to a harness. The Strapless strap on dildo which is L shaped has a bulb end that goes into one vagina and is held in by the use of the kegel or pelvic floor muscles and the other end of the dildo is then used to penetrate the partner. One of the advantages of the strapless strap-on dildo is that there’s no fiddling around with straps and harnesses and easier to go from foreplay to penetration.

Squirting dildos

Perhaps you are looking for the sensation of penile ejaculation without the penile, there’s even a dildo for that! Squirting dildos can be filled with the lubrication of your choice and simulate the sensation of ejaculation if that’s your thing!

G Spot dildos

Women can sometimes struggle getting a G-spot orgasm and this is where the specially designed G Spot dildo comes in. The G Spot dildo has a special design made to help achieve the sometimes elusive G spot orgasm. Even if G spot orgasms aren’t difficult for you, it’s still a great dildo to have in your sexual toolkit.

Anal dildos

Anal dildos are specially designed for anal penetration and have a smaller opening to make things more comfortable, especially for those new to anal.

Glass dildos

As well as different shapes and sizes, dildos are also available in other materials like glass. The ultra-smooth texture and colder feeling bring a different sensation to the regular silicone dildo.

Metal dildos

Metal dildos look nothing like a penis and more like a futuristic piece of art you might put on display. The look and feel are very different to that of a regular silicone dildo and the metal gives it a cooler (colder) feeling which could be something of a turn-on.

Realistic dildos

As the name suggests, realistic dildos are designed to replicate a real penis without the man attached. If you like the idea of penetrating yourself with a more realistic penile experience the realistic dildo would be the way to go.

Now that you know about some of the different dildos available today let’s delve into how to get the most pleasure out of your dildo-riding experience

Lubrication is essential

Don’t forget the Lube! One of the most important things to be on top of when using a dildo is lube. Lubrication will enhance the pleasure and keep things comfortable at the same time. Water-based lubricants are the most popular for most people.

Speed and control

Whether you are pleasuring yourself or your partner, it’s essential to take your time and learn what you and your partner like. Immediately thrusting hard with the dildo is not likely to be the most pleasurable way of doing things. Take your time, learn what you like and what your partner likes and then slowly turn up the volume to heat things up even more as you delve into your sexual play!

Be sure to create the right mood and sensual ambience even if it’s solo play

If the dildo is your friend for the night, don’t skimp on creating the right mood for solo play. Light a candle, play the right music and get yourself into the mood before playing with yourself and going for the G Spot. Me time can be just as fulfilling as me and you time so be sure to take time out to discover how to turn yourself on!

Round up

The good old dildo is your trusted friend and whether it’s solo play or part of the sexual fun with your partner it can always be relied on and with so many choices out there, you are sure to be ‘dildo-tained’ for a very long time! Ride on!