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Cultivate Your Own Chill

Temperature play can be fun in any weather, but when the outside world reaches extreme heat you may find your body shivering with delight at the thought of an icy cold touch. The heatwave is your excuse to lean into all things chilly! The hotter your body is, the more intense (and pleasurable) the introduction of cold will be for your senses.

Safe Cybering

Social distancing measures have disrupted the dating and sex lives of most people. Humans are social creatures that as a group are a pretty horny bunch, so this whole staying-inside-alone thing has required a massive paradigm shift. If you weren’t using your digital devices for sexy-times pre-pandemic, chances are it has crossed your mind since this all started.

Aftercare: important, but not talked about enough. Aftercare represents what you do to mediate your body and emotions after sex.

Anyone can have fun with a strap-on, including gay, bi, pansexual, and heterosexual people. The two-piece sex toy can shake up a couple’s sex life and make intercourse more fulfilling.

Did you know whether you clean your sex toys heavily determines the life span of your toys? Have no fear! Here at Wet for Her, we believe education is necessary, so we’re here to show you the best way to clean your sext toys and how to make sure you have more time having fun in the sheets!

Tentatively Accepting My Bisexuality Part Three Buckle up, the story about my queerness is about to get more complicated.

Tentatively Accepting My Bisexuality Part Two Buckle up, the story about my queerness is about to get more complicated.

Good news -- you don’t need long fingers to please a vulva-owning partner! Since most sexual pleasure comes from external stimulation or shallow internal stimulation, short, stubby fingers can still make your sweetheart scream your name.

Shopping for a new sex toy is an exercise in imagination. Scrolling through pictures, each with the question: what would that *feel* like? How big, long, or thick is the perfect toy? These are key in the pleasure equation for many women but listing off measurements isn’t exactly sexy.