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Sex is an activity of the senses, and we do mean *all* of them. Touch is the first sense that springs to mind, but the sight, smell, and taste of your lover are all powerful components of arousal, desire, and fantasy.

Roleplay

Let your fantasies run wild. Get creative enough and you can work a good spank into almost any roleplay fantasy. Common themes include changing age, gender, or sexual orientation; but really any aspect of your character can be evolved. This might involve creating a temporary power play dynamic, even if that is outside the norm for your relationship.

Cultivate Your Own Chill

Temperature play can be fun in any weather, but when the outside world reaches extreme heat you may find your body shivering with delight at the thought of an icy cold touch. The heatwave is your excuse to lean into all things chilly! The hotter your body is, the more intense (and pleasurable) the introduction of cold will be for your senses.