If you have never used a strap-on for penetrative vaginal sex, clitoral stimulation, or pegging, you might be unsure what to expect or how the non-vibrating sex toy works. If so, read this visual guide to our strap-on range to find out what one looks like.
The Different Strap-on Harness Types
Due to the sheer number of strap-ons available, you might be unsure where to start when looking for a sex toy for penetrative vaginal sex or pegging (anal sex with a strap-on).
If so, you will be pleased to learn there are only two main types of strap-on harnesses:
- Underwear-style harnesses
- Strap-on style harnesses
If you pick an underwear-style harness, it will look similar to underwear, as you can buy it in different designs, such as a thong, boy shorts, lingerie, or boxer briefs.
If you pick a strap-on style harness, you or your partner must wear an adjustable strap to fit your body. Also, you can choose from various designs, such as a jockstrap, boy shorts, thong, or boxer briefs.
An O-Ring for a Perfect Fit
We understand couples will have different needs in the bedroom, which is why they can choose from many harnesses with an O-ring. An O-ring is a hole inside a harness strap and will allow you or a partner to wear dildos of varying sizes, from a small to XL diameter. As a result, you can use different shapes and sizes in the bedroom to shake up your sex life and stimulate the G-spot, A-spot, or P-spot.
A Snug Strap-on
If you have never used a strap-on before, you might be unsure if you need a loose or snug fit. A loose fit isn’t recommended, as it will provide less control of the attached dildo during penetration. Instead, you must ensure a harness offers a snug fit to experience improved control and movement of a dildo, which will prevent frustration and increase sexual pleasure.
Dildo Variations
Strap-on harnesses can fit various dildo varieties, including silicone, Pyrex, stainless steel, and glass dildos. Of course, the size and diameter you choose can determine your sexual enjoyment in the bedroom.
If you have never used a strap-on before, picking the wrong size might feel off-putting, especially when pegging for the first time. For this reason, it is wise to start small with a dildo up to five or seven inches long and a diameter between 1.5 to 1.75 inches. Also, remember that lube is a must-have when using a strap-on.
However, you will need to look beyond a dildo’s size and diameter, as the shape and texture can also determine your satisfaction. For example, don’t overlook curved dildos for prostate or internal stimulation.
Silicone dildos are often a wise choice, as they are more flexible, lighter, and easier to control during penetrative sex. You can even buy a dildo with vibrating features to boost enjoyment for both a wearer and a partner. Also, you can plug a clitoris ring vibrator into a strap-on dildo to maximize pleasure.
A double strap-on, often referred to as a double dildo, is a great option for vulva-to-vulva or vulva to anal penetration. As it features two similar-sized dildos, a double strap-on can provide simultaneous penetration for shared pleasure and improved intimacy.
Other options include strap-on suction dildos for a shower or bathroom or a pocket one-speed bullet vibrator for a wearer.
Expressive Dildo Designs
Our dildos cannot only maximize pleasure and satisfaction with a partner, but they are available in different designs to express your passions and personality or suit your preferences.
For example, a penis-style design is ideal for those looking for a more masculine experience, or you can showcase your LGBTQ+ pride with a rainbow strap-on dildo design.
However, if you are looking for a dildo that is feminine or less intimidating, you can’t go wrong with our Vision of Love silicone strap-on, which offers a pastel blue, pink, and purple design, as well as a silky-smooth texture.
Choose a Strap-On Together
If you are in a romantic or sexual relationship, choose a strap-on with your partner. As both of you will increase sexual pleasure when using the sex toy, it is essential to choose a harness, dildo, and any accessories together. It will ensure you are both 100% happy with a strap-on choice, which will improve stimulation, pleasure, and sexual satisfaction. Plus, your partner is less likely to feel intimidated by the sex toy, as they will have had a say in the size, shape, design, and harness style.
Of course, it is a wise idea to start slow when using a strap-on for the first time and establish a safe word to ensure you both feel comfortable during vaginal sex or pegging. Also, remember the material you choose could determine your enjoyment in the bedroom, as you might prefer soft silicone or smooth glass over vinyl or latex.
Conclusion
Couples and sexual partners can improve eroticism and intimacy in the bedroom with strap-on play. Also, wearing the sex toy could help one or both partners tap into a sexual fantasy and increase their sexual pleasure.
If you are new to strap-on play, it makes sense you might be overwhelmed with the wide variety of options available, which proves how popular the activity is with couples. Yet, the above top tips can help you find the right design, fit, shape, and texture to match your experience, preference, and personality.
Once you have found the right strap-on and dildo to get started, you can experiment with different sizes, shapes, lubricants, and accessories to boost your pleasure in the bedroom and increase your likelihood of an orgasm.
What are you waiting for? Browse our wide variety of strap-on harnesses and dildos to transform your sex life.
