Also, you can choose from various sizes, lengths, materials, and girths to match your desires and support sexual exploration. If you have never used a dildo before or want to maximize the experience the next time you are alone or with a partner in a bedroom, read the following tips and tricks on how to use a dildo.
Consider Your Desired Stimulation
Wet for Her stock many dildos for different experiences, from clitoral stimulation for solo pleasure to anal penetration for partners. Enhance your experience by choosing a sex toy for your desired stimulation, such as G-spot or P-spot stimulation.
For example, if you want to target the A-spot, choose a hard dildo made from stainless steel or glass. To stimulate the G-spot or P-spot, a curved dildo will likely maximize pleasure in the bedroom, especially when attached to a strap-on harness. However, if you want to get a little naughty underneath the sheets alone, pick a vibrating dildo to experience an unforgettable orgasm.
Never Forget to Use Lubricant
It doesn't matter what dildo you use; you must apply plenty of lubricant before penetration to minimize friction and enhance the sensation between the dildo and your skin. A water-based lubricant is the safest option for silicone dildos, and you can also use it with stainless steel and glass options. If you use a silicone-based lube on a silicone sex toy, you could damage the dildo. Remember, there is no such thing as too much lubricant when using a dildo.
Take It Slow
You can use a dildo in almost every sexual activity, from masturbation to intercourse with a partner. If you plan to use a dildo for vaginal or anal penetration, ensure you take it slow at first, especially if you are using a large dildo for the first time.
Starting slow will allow you to find a comfortable rhythm, and you can increase your speed or change angles once you or your partner are happy to do so. For example, you can start by massaging the vulva, labia, or anus with a dildo, which will allow you to tease yourself or a partner and warm up for penetration. Once penetration begins, use slow movements and adapt to how you or a partner feels.
Use a Strap-On Harness
If you plan to use a dildo with a partner, consider using a strap-on harness. It is a perfect way to improve vaginal or anus penetration, as you can change a dildo's size, shape, and material to match your preferences.
For instance, you can buy a strap-on style or an underwear-style harness that features an O-ring to hold different dildo designs. It could provide more control during penetration and increase intimacy between you and a partner.
Don't Fear Experimenting
Everyone's body is different. A slow, steady speed might work for one person, but another might prefer a fast, more erratic movement. Once you or a partner feel comfortable with a dildo, experiment with different motions, rhythms, and speeds to find out what works. The more you experiment, the more you'll learn, and the more sexually confident you'll become.
Choose a Non-Porous Material
It is vital to pick a non-porous material when buying a dildo to avoid a visit to a doctor. The likes of vinyl, latex, and jelly rubber will contain microscopic holes in the material that can store bacteria and residue, even after a thorough cleaning. Plus, the porous materials may contain phthalates, a group of chemicals that are toxic to the body.
Pick a non-porous dildo, such as:
- Silicone
- Glass
- Metal
Non-porous materials will not feature microscopic holes, ensuring they are safe to use after every cleaning. However, it is essential to clean them after each use with a natural foam sex toy cleaner or soap and warm water. However, never completely submerge a dildo into water if it isn't waterproof.
Pick a Multi-functioning Dildo
Spice up your sex life even further by treating yourself to a multi-functioning dildo. It will provide more versatility and variety in the bedroom, as it can provide more thrills than standard dildos.
For example, you can attach a suction dildo to a surface for hands-free penetration in a bathroom or shower. Alternatively, you can increase your sexual arousal with a vibrating dildo, as it can increase your pleasure and improve your likelihood of an orgasm.
Pick the Perfect Type for You
The dildo you choose can determine your comfort and satisfaction during clitoral stimulation and vaginal or anal penetration. For example, if you want to embark on anal play, choose a dildo with a base wider than the thickest part of a dildo.
If you are looking to enjoy shared arousal, a double-ended dildo is a great choice, as it will ensure you both feel sexually satisfied at the same time.
However, to enjoy a more realistic experience similar to intercourse with a penis, you can buy a lifelike dildo or a squirting dildo with a syringe to simulate ejaculation. The latter option can even be used to support an at-home insemination process, or it might be a sexier alternative for those struggling with erectile dysfunction.
Conclusion
The dildo options are seemingly endless, as there are many shapes, sizes, materials, features, textures, and designs to suit different desires, needs, and preferences. You will find every type of dildo you will need to increase pleasure in the bedroom and enhance your sex life, from curved dildos for improved penetration to strap-on dildos for more control and fun in the bedroom.
With sizes starting from 2 to 3 inches ranging to 9.1 inches plus, you're bound to find the perfect sex toy for your specific needs at Wet for Her. Browse our collection today for a fun and fulfilling sex life.
