What if you kept your fingers for two? We often think of masturbation as a solo, intimate, and secret moment. But between women, we know that pleasure can be shared... in a different way. Mutual masturbation is a sensual game, without pressure, where you give pleasure while also receiving it. Together, face to face, side by side, or even at a distance, every breath becomes an invitation to explore. No penetration is needed to masturbate as a couple and turn up the heat. Just two bodies, two gazes, and a lot of desire. This gentle and exciting sexual practice reinvents foreplay... or becomes the fireworks in itself. Curious? You're going to love it.
Mutual masturbation: what exactly are we talking about?
It's simple. You caress yourself... while she caresses herself. No penetration, no pressure. Just two bodies observing each other, desiring each other, exploring each other... each with their own fingers, their own toys, their own rhythm. You can lie side by side in bed, or look at each other face to face, legs intertwined, breathing heavily. Even at a distance, with a connected sex toy, the pleasure flows.
This game for two is not a plan B. It nourishes intimacy, liberates desires, and helps you better understand what makes the other person tick. It's a sexual practice in its own right, perfect for days when you want to give pleasure in a different way. Slowly. Intensely. And if you've never tried it... you might just get hooked.
Masturbating as a couple, what are the benefits?
Masturbating as a couple is a gentle, sensual, and deliciously exciting way to rediscover each other... without ever touching. Observing her gestures, listening to her sighs, noticing that little shiver when her fingers glide just there: it's a whole language of the body that unfolds. And what a pleasure to learn more about what turns her on, without a single word. Mutual masturbation allows for exploration without pressure. No need for performance, no script to follow. Just the two of you, in the moment, awakening your libidos. It's perfect when desire has waned a little or when routine sets in. And if you want to break the routine, this time together can transform into a real playground.
A sex toy, a glance, a sigh... and everything ignites. Giving pleasure, without forcing anything, in complete freedom: perhaps that's the true power of masturbating as a couple.
Create a conducive atmosphere and ignite the senses
Even before slipping a hand under the sheets, there's that tension... that atmosphere that slowly builds. Soft lighting, sensual music, fresh sheets: everything matters. Prepare your sanctuary as you prepare your pleasure. Do you prefer a soft and tender atmosphere? Opt for a few candles and a chill playlist. Want something more raw, more wild? Cracking leather, a vibrating bassline, and the temperature rises.
Foreplay doesn't need hands to exist. A glance, a sigh, a whispered phrase in your ear... That's what triggers true surrender. That moment when you let go, face to face or side by side, in a bubble just for the two of you. The body opens up, the senses awaken, desire takes over completely.
The best positions for masturbating together
Want to try mutual masturbation without overthinking it? Lie down side by side with your partner. Lying in bed, your hands move at the same rhythm, your breaths synchronize, your bodies seek each other without touching. It's gentle, comfortable... and so exciting.
Want something more intense? Sit face to face, legs intertwined, eyes locked. Every movement becomes a mirror game. You watch her climax, she watches you climax. The orgasm becomes a shared spectacle, a synchronized build-up of tension.
And what if you're far apart? A connected sex toy, like those in the Wet for Her catalog, is all you need to stay in control. She vibrates when you decide. You increase the power, change the rhythm, give pleasure from a distance... and receive just as much in return.
The perfect sex toys for mutual masturbation
Want a duo that's practically a fireworks display? Add a clitoral stimulator to the mix. The TouchMe vibrator or the AirMe suction and pulsed air vibrator from Wet for Her fit comfortably in your hand or in your panties. You hold it. You vibrate. You climax. So does she. It's small, precise, and triggers waves of pleasure simultaneously.
Need more depth? The lesbian strap-on dildo enters the scene. One hand on your body, the other holding the harness, and voilà, you alternate between solo and duo play, caresses and penetrations. Nothing beats this for blurring the lines between mutual masturbation and passionate sex.
And if you want to go hands-free? Connected, vibrating toys do the job. One press of the remote control, and the pleasure intensifies. She controls your vibrations. You control hers. From a distance, face to face, or side by side, the excitement grows.
She smiles without a word.
Our naughty tips for an unforgettable first time
No need for long speeches to make your first mutual masturbation session a success. A glance, a sigh, a shiver are enough. Communicate with your bodies, your breaths, your movements. Let the silence speak of pleasure.
Remember to alternate between giving and receiving. Observe what excites your partner… then imitate her. This mirroring game creates a unique, almost magical connection.
Take your time. Synchronize your movements. A hand on her breast, her eyes locked on yours, your hips moving in rhythm… and there you are, engaged in a gentle, intoxicating, intimate sexual practice.
No pressure, no performance anxiety. Just shared desire.
Mutual masturbation isn't limited to touching each other side by side. It's a shared ritual, a delicious way to reinvent desire, to enjoy yourselves together, without pressure.
Consider this a playground, an invitation to experiment, explore, laugh, even fail… then start again until the explosion. Dare to draw inspiration from a lesbian Kama Sutra of caresses and burning glances.
At Wet for Her, we create sex toys designed by and for lesbian women, to transform every moment into a shared thrill. Lesbian strap-ons, naughty vibrators, connected toys... everything is ready. All you have to do is dare.
