So you’ve invested in yourself and bought your very first sex toy through Wet for Her.
Now what? Well, the answer is pretty straightforward, but we understand that trying out a sex toy for the first time can be quite intimidating.
No worries! We are here to help! It is wise to take things slow and easy at first.
This means starting with a dildo size that won’t be too intense. We want a wow not an ow, right? We recommend starting with a small size and building your way up as your experience with sex toy play grows.
How to insert a sex toy:
Step 1: Lube up! You want to make sure you're ready to receive your new sex toy by being sexually aroused. You can start by lubing up your sex toys by putting lube on the tip of the shaft and working your way down with your hands.
Step 2: Take your time and explore Start slowly and allow yourself some time to get used to the sex toy around your genitals.
If you are planning on using it in your vagina or for G-spot stimulation, try some external stimulation before penetration by rubbing the dildo gently along your labia and against your clitoris. This will “warm you up” by increasing sexual arousal and blood flow to your genitals.
As for anal penetration, also begin with slow stimulation around the anus, butt cheeks, and perineum. This will help to prepare the anus for penetration.
Don’t forget your lube! Some pro tips for safety: make sure your sex toys has a tapered end, you’ve used the bathroom beforehand (trust me on this one), and avoid using your sex toy on any other area once it has been inserted into the anus.
And for the love of all that is pleasurable, don’t forget to clean your dildo afterwards! Step 3: Insert your dildo and start exploring some more! Insert your dildo into your vagina or anus one inch at a time by spreading your labia or your buttcheeks gently.
If your partner is around, feel free to ask them for assistance! Remain curious and start exploring to see what feels good. Take things slow and build it up gradually by inserting more of the dildo as you progress.
Remember this is your time to shine so don’t be afraid! To get some awesome results with your new dildo, try thrusting it in an angle against the front wall of the vagina once you’ve gotten the rhythm down to stimulate your G-spot.
Or alternatively, for those of us with prostates, you can try to stimulate the front wall of the anus in the same manner. If anytime throughout your playtime you feel yourself going dry, don’t hesitate to add more lube!