WET FOR HER SIZE GUIDE
Finding the Right Fit
Every body is unique—and that’s exactly how we designed our products.
Whether you’re new to strap-on play, looking for a more comfortable fit, or simply replacing an old harness, this guide is here to help you find the size that feels right for your body and your relationship.
There is no “perfect” body shape, no “right” way to wear a harness, and no one-size-fits-all experience. Our sizing recommendations are designed to help every member of our community feel secure, comfortable, and confident.
Sex toys & Dildos Size Guide
Each insertable toy in our store has an icon indicating one to four fingers.
As queer people, we chose a reference point we can all relate to: fingers. Our dildo sizes are based on the number of fingers you would normally use with your partner. We know not everybody's finger is identical, but the difference is minimal. Our fingers are based on a glove size 7.
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- 2 Fingers - Small (~1.1"/2.8cm diameter)
- 3 Fingers - Medium (~1.37"/3.5cm diameter)
- 4 Fingers - Large (~1.53"/3.9cm diameter)
Harnesses Size Guide
-Made for Every Body-
At Wet For Her, we believe pleasure shouldn’t come with size expectations.
Our harnesses are designed to celebrate the diversity of our LGBTQIA+ community, fitting a wide range of body shapes, sizes, and gender expressions. Whether you’re petite, curvy, athletic, plus-size, trans, non-binary, or somewhere in between, we’re here to help you find your best fit.
Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around the fullest part of your hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below the high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.
TIP: If you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The harness needs to fit snugly to your body.
Comfort Comes First
A properly fitted harness should feel secure without digging in or restricting movement. When your harness fits well, you can focus on connection, confidence, and enjoying the moment together—not on constantly adjusting your gear.
Jock Harness by Wet for Her
If you’re between sizes, or simply aren’t sure which option is right for you, our team is always happy to help.
| Size | Low waist (inches/cm) | US | Europe/UK-Australia |
| A: XS-3X | 28-50 / 71-127 | 4-16 | 34-44 / 6-18 |
| B: L-5X | 37-65 / 92-165 | 10-20 | 40-50 / 12-22 |
Boxer and Brief Packer Harness by Wet For Her
| Size | Boxer and Brief Harness (low waist in inches/cm) |
| XS-S | 27-32 / 69-81 |
| M-L | 33-36 / 84-91 |
| L-XL | 37-44 / 94-112 |
| XL-2XL | 44-47 / 112-119 |
| 2XL-3XL | 47-52 / 119-132 |
| 4XL-5XL | 52-60 / 135-147 |
Wet For Her Dildos & Sex Toys Size Guide
| Insertable Length | Width | Fingers | |
| Sex Toy Two | 12 cm - 4.7 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy Out Small | 13 cm - 5.1 inch | 2.8 cm - 1.10 inch | 2 |
| Sex Toy Sunset Small | 12.7 cm - 5 inch | 2.8 cm - 1.10 inch | 2 |
| Sex Toy Sunset Medium | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy Sunset Large | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 4.0 cm - 1.60 inch | 4 |
| Sex Toy Rainbow Small | 12.7 cm - 5 inch | 3.0 cm - 1.20 inch | 2 |
| Sex Toy Rainbow Medium | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy Rainbow Large | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 4.0 cm - 1.60 inch | 4 |
| Sex Toy Starlette Medium | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy Starlight Medium | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy Fusion Small | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.0 cm - 1.20 inch | 2 |
| Sex Toy Fusion Medium | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.37 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy Fusion Large | 17.2 cm - 6.8 inch | 3.9 cm - 1.53 inch | 4 |
| Sex Toy ComZe Small | 14.5 cm - 5.7 inch | 2.8 cm - 1.10 inch | 2 |
| Sex Toy ComZe Medium | 15.2 cm - 6 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.4 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy ComZe Large | 16.2 cm - 6.4 inch | 3.8 cm - 1.50 inch | 4 |
| Sex Toy BeanZe Medium | 14 cm - 5.5 inch | 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch | 3 |
| Sex Toy WondHer Medium | 17 cm - 6.7 inch | 3.4 cm - 1.35 inch | 3 |
Double dildos Size Guide
| Insertable Length | Width | Fingers | |
| Double Dildo Union Small | 15 cm - 5.90 inch |
3 cm - 1.2 inch
Bulb: 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch
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2 |
| Double Dildo Union Medium | 15 cm - 5.90 inch |
3.5 cm - 1.37 inch
Bulb: 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch
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3 |
| Double Dildo Union Large | 15 cm - 5.90 inch |
3.9 cm - 1.53 inch
Bulb: 3.5 cm - 1.38 inch
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4 |
Other dildos
| Insertable Length | Width | Fingers | |
| Summer Large (suction cup) | 18.8 cm - 7.4 inch | 4 cm - 1.6 inch | 4 |
| Sexy Pink Large (suction cup) | 17.7 cm - 7 inch | 4.4 cm - 1.75 inch | 4 |
| Miss Bi G5 (vibrating) | 11.4 cm - 4.5 inch | 4 cm - 1.6 inch | 4 |
| Gallant Wavy Glass Dildo | 15 cm - 5.9 inch | 3.3 cm - 1.3 inch | 3 |
Tomboi, Sasha, and Bella harnesses Size Guide
| Size | Spare Parts (low waist inches) | US | Europe / UK-Australia |
| XS | 26-28 | 2-4 | 34 / 8-10 |
| S | 29-32 | 4-6 | 36 / 10-12 |
| M | 33-37 | 6-8 | 38 / 12-14 |
| L | 38-40 | 8-10 | 40 / 16 |
| XL | 41-44 | 10-12 | 42 / 18 |
| 2XL | 45-48 | 14-16 | 44 / 20 |
| 3XL | 49-52 | 16-18 | 46-48 / 22 |
Tomboii boxer Size Guide
| Size | Spare Parts (low waist inches) | US | Europe / UK-Australia |
| XS | 26-32 | 2-4 | 34 / 8-10 |
| S | 28-34 | 4-6 | 36 / 10-12 |
| M | 30-37 | 6-8 | 38 / 12-14 |
| L | 31-38 | 8-10 | 40 / 16 |
| XL | 33-40 | 10-12 | 42 / 18 |
| 2XL | 36-44 | 14-16 | 44 / 20 |
| 3XL | 39-48 | 16-18 | 46-48 / 22 |