Strapless Strap-On Dildos

A strapless dildo is a harness-free sex toy that enables one partner to penetrate another, offering the two increased closeness and playful touch. The strapless dildo resembles a capital L shape, but the two ends are very different. One end, called the bulb, is much shorter than the other, designed to make entering your partner’s body easier. Unlike strapon dildos, the strapless double dildo works by one partner inserting the bulb into their vagina, using their pelvic floor muscles to keep it in place. They can then pleasure their partner as they enter them. As the dildo is held in place inside a person, it looks more realistic than what a harness can offer. Like all sex toys, you can buy variations of a strapless dildo, including a silicone strapless vibrator version, a non-vibrating strapless dildo, strapless stainless steel double dildos, and ones made of glass. They all provide the deepest pleasure to both people in the moment, with some offering firm pressure on all the right parts! The bullet vibe attached to many strapless dildos can be easily removed and added to make each experience different from the last. It is the perfect sex toy for both anal penetration and vaginal penetration because of its ability to quickly move from foreplay to the real deal. Without the need to interrupt the mood and strap into a harness, it gives a realistic, hassle-free experience for both individuals. This also increases comfort levels for both parties, as you can ramp up the physical touch and maintain close contact with them throughout.

To use a strapless strap-on dildo, you must ensure it is completely body-safe. This means cleaning it before use. Fortunately, they are easy to clean. You can use a sex toy cleaner or hot water and soap to clean it gently. Once cleaned, decide who will wear the strapless dildo – it is an important conversation to have before you get down to business. Just how do strapless dildos work if there is no harness, though? It works by inserting one end of the strapless dildo (the bulb) into your or your partner’s vagina. You must use your kegel or pelvic floor muscles to keep the strapless dildo in place. For the best sexual and realistic experience, you may benefit from a partner with stronger muscles wearing it. Use lube to help with inserting the bulb. Then, take the time to get you and your partner in the mood. Foreplay is one of the most important steps you can take as you master how to use a strapless dildo. When ready, insert the bulb into your vagina or help your partner slowly insert it into theirs. Once inserted and the kegel muscles are holding it securely in place, you can now penetrate your partner with the elongated end of the strapless dildo. Do so slowly, and at a pace and depth, your partner is happy with. You can use stimulation gels to help arouse each other to make the experience even more fun.

The answer to this question truly comes down to personal preference. Still, standard strap-on dildos provide pleasurable sensations to the partner being penetrated, but the wearer doesn’t get the same stimulation because there’s no penetration for them. While using a strap-on dildo with your partner as the wearer can be an exciting experience, it doesn’t afford the heightened physical sensations that a strapless dildo does. The feeling of penetration for both the wearer and the receiver, therefore, makes the strapless dildo a couple’s favorite. Also, in your search for a strapless dildo, you may come across different stimulation types, which, like standard strapon dildos, come down to the pleasure points, shape, material, size, and added features, like vibration controls. Like common dildos, many strapless dildos deliver vibrations, allowing people to up the pleasure while having sex. This extra stimulation is given to both the wearer and the partner being penetrated, offering pleasure to both simultaneously. As such, you have more chance of climaxing at the same time with a strapless dildo – especially one that vibrates. However, it’s worth noting that if your G-spot is stimulated too soon, it could affect your rhythm and bring things to a close much sooner than you may like. If that’s the case, you might prefer conventional strapon dildos instead, as these are a bit less intense in terms of stimulation and sensation for the wearer. Alternatively, you could still opt for a strapless dildo but keep any vibration features switched off during use if you don’t want too much stimulation. That way, the strapless dildo is still pleasurable in all the right ways but isn’t too overpowering, therefore helping you and your partner last longer. Without vibrations turned on, you and your partner may not reach the big O quite at the same time. However, it leaves the wearer feeling more in control of their thrusting rhythm. Additionally, if you pick the right strapless dildo, such as ones made from glass or stainless steel, the sensations from the material and design may help you reach orgasm without the added vibrations.

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Compared to strapon dildos, all strapless dildos automatically look more realistic as there is no harness. However, if you are after the most realistic strapless dildo, then first start by choosing one based on look. You can find many strapless dildos that come in skin tones and resemble real penises. However, you may not like the thought of this, and the good news is that despite not using realistic colors, many products out there still look realistic once in place. For example, you can’t go wrong with our Union Double Dildo Vibrating strapless dildo product. While the color is not what is realistic here, the shape and overall design is. Unlike other strapless dildos that are more abstract in look with a more flimsy jelly-like material, this can be easily shaped to the angle you need, thanks to the internal copper wire. This means you have plenty of opportunities for different positions, making it one of the most realistic options. You can get this in various sizes, too, so you can pick what is most natural for the two of you! Everyone has their vision of “realistic.” You may prefer not to use the bullet vibe for a more realistic experience, then simply remove this from the strapless dildo.

When buying a strapless double dildo, you will quickly realize that there are plenty to choose from, the designs vary, and it takes a lot of practice to use. We have a few key considerations to help you figure out just what strapless double dildo you need. The material Most strapless dildos are made from silicone as it is easy to adjust the shape to your position, is comfortable, is silky soft to the touch, and often comes with added vibrations. Some vibration options are operated by remote control, while others use simple buttons on the dildo itself. What’s more, some are powered by batteries, and some are USB rechargeable. However, if you don’t want a strapless vibrating dildo, you could opt for a curved glass double dildo or stainless steel double dildo. The queer and lesbian strapless dildo made of glass is completely shatterproof and body safe and can be used hot or cold – so if you want to enjoy a different experience each time, then glass could be for you. These are larger than most strapless dildos for ultimate pleasure. Stainless steel is heavier than most strapless dildos, but this means you get firm pressure on all your pleasure points as you use it. Some people like this; others do not. Both options are smooth and easy to insert and remove, and compatible with all lubes. Your pelvic floor muscles To use a strapless strap on dildo, you have to have strong pelvic floor muscles to keep it in place for long periods. You can start squeezing Ben Wa Balls and work out your kegel muscles often to help with being able to secure the strapless dildo in place. While you get used to it, you could use it with a harness (many of the products here are compatible). The size It is important to consider the size of your strapless dildo. Look at what the overall insertable length is, as well as the diameter, finger, and firmness, to give you an idea of what to expect from it. Speak with your partner about what they feel comfortable using. Design The overall design of a strapless dildo is the same. You have two ends to it, one shorter and one longer. However, this isn’t to say that all strapless dildos are the same and offer the same experience. Subtle differences in design will give a different experience. ·       Added dimension You can buy a double sided silicone strapless dildo that has a USB rechargeable bullet vibe attached to it for extra dimension. These are the most popular strapless dildos on the market as they offer extra spot stimulation with easy remote control options to determine the speed. ·       Shaped ends Some silicone strapless dildos offer a different-shaped end in the form of two long fingers. You can’t find this type of design everywhere, but it offers a unique experience to the one you want to pleasure.  ·      Deeper penetration For a deeper reach, you might get on better with the stainless steel strapless double dildo. The curved design offers a deeper reach as you penetrate, while the small rounded end is ideal for targeted stimulation. History While the history of the strapless strapon dildo isn’t that long (it first appeared in 1997 and is considered one of the more recent developments of sex toys), it had to come from somewhere. It developed from strapon dildos, and these have been around for years. The history of strapon double dildos can date back as far as the 10th century, with artifacts, ancient writings, and murals all showing that these were as popular then as they are now. You can read more about the history of sex toys on our blog!