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Bump & grind: 3 of our top tips for getting the most out of the Bumpher

Bump & grind: 3 of our top tips for getting the most out of the Bumpher

Hello. Fancy bumping into you here… That’s right, it’s the very first line and we are already punning. We’re just having some fun, as we always encourage you to do. In this article we’re introducing the BumpHer, Wet For Her’s signature dildo base cushion. You’ll get to know the BumpHer and some of its intended uses. Spoiler alert: It’s about pleasure! So enjoy.

A brief introduction to the BumpHer

The BumpHer dildo base cushion provides the ultimate in pleasure and padding for those in the LGBTQIA+ community. The BumpHer dildo base cushion is a soft and supple silicone cushion cover designed to be worn at the base of a dildo during strap-on sex. Not only does it provide extra padding for the dildo wearer, it also features a double-bump design that contours the clitoris, initiating sensual stimulation for the wearer during strap-on sex. 

The BumpHer cushion base cover for strap-on dildos fits comfortably and securely with all Wet For Her dildo base shapes measuring up to 3.25 inches. Made of velvety smooth medical grade silicone (and available in several colors, including classic black), the cushion is also compatible both with open O ring and underwear harnesses. Whether you’re a top or a bottom, into harness play, or simply love the feel of soft silicone against your skin, try this dildo base cushion.

What exactly is a bumper or dildo base for?

Great question! A bumper or dildo base, and specifically, our BumpHer is a sex toy accessory. It is made to provide comfort and enhance pleasure during strap-on play. It is a silicone cushion for dildos, designed to cushion the base of a dildo, any kind of dildo, to provide the wearer with a little extra padding for enhanced comfort, and some playful contouring for added stimulation. Pleasure and padding – it’s a two-for-one situation! We love multitasking, don’t you?

The BumpHer, soft yet firm, can be described as a pillowy dildo base stimulation cushion, intended to make strap-on sex and play more comfortable and pleasurable for those of us with vulvas. Strap-on play entails a lot of repeated contact and impact, and the more sensitive among us may experience bruising, especially during a rougher or more intense play session. A cushion base cover for a strap-on dildo can, well, cushion the blows in the best way possibly, by enhancing pleasure!

3 hot tips for maximizing your pleasure with the BumpHer

As with all sex toys and sex toy accessories, there are oh-so-many ways to maximize your pleasure, as well as the pleasure of your partner(s). We’ve got three sexy, stimulating ways you might want to try using the BumpHer for that purpose. Ready for the ride? Hang on to your dildo base cushion, it may get bumpy…

Try it for strap-on play

The BumpHer was designed specifically as a cushion for strap-on partner play. The wearer can attach the silicon cushion to the bottom or base of their dildo. The BumpHer can be used with or without a harness. The idea is to create a bit of a padded buffer for more comfortable impact, so the wearer doesn't need to reign in their bump-and-grind moves. When topping during penetrative sex, with the BumpHer in place, you can pound away, to your heart’s content! 


Made in soft silicone, the carefully designed mounds and divets are an added bonus of this accessory, intended to give the wearer extra stimulation of the clitoris and around the vaginal opening. That means more stimulation and pleasure for the wearer. Consider wearing the dildo base cushion during strap-on blowjobs and handjobs, too, for a little extra oomph on your end. Did we mention that it's velvet-smooth to the touch?

Try it to simulate scissoring solo

Another way to use the BumpHer is to simulate scissoring when solo. Yes, in the strictest sense, scissoring is performed à deux. But why not get creative with the BumpHer? Hear us out. You can position this dildo base cushion (without a dildo!) for a solo scissoring session, mimicking vulva-to-vulva contact. Along with a little manual stimulation, the double oval mounds will help get you off.

Try it on your wand vibrator

OK. Now we are getting even more creative. Got a wand vibrator? Good. (And if you don’t, keep reading and you may want one.) Try securing the BumpHer to the end of your wand. You can use the stretchy hole that allows it to attach to the base of dildo to attach it to your vibrator. Press on. Now you can grind against your dildo base cushion powered by your vibrator. You get all those good vibrations with the added squishiness and 3D stimulation of the BumpHer, all by yourself. It’s good to be independent, right?

Be good to your BumpHer

Our final bonus tip: Your BumpHer is good to you, so be good to it. As with all of our sex toys and accessories, we recommend that you clean it after every use. This can be done using either a simple solution of water and mild soap or with a water-based sex toy cleaner. Make sure that you store your BumpHer in a cool and dry place so that it will stay clean and last for longer. 

To note: The BumpHer dildo base cushion stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases from 1.5" to 3 1/4". It is made of 100% medical-grade silicone and is phthalate, latex, paraben & fragrance-free. It is designed to be enjoyed by lesbians, bisexuals, transgender, and gender non-conforming folk. The BumpHer dildo base cover is long-lasting and body-safe. And remember, as it is made of silicone, use only water based lube if any at all.

We’re just covering the (dildo) bases here, we want you to maximize your pleasure in the long-term.

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