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Start by identifying the specific type of stimulation you want to target. Popular options include:

• External Pleasure: Clitoral vibrators, suction toys, and bullet vibes.
• Internal Pleasure: G-spot vibrators, prostate massagers (P-spot toys), or anal plugs.
• Dual Stimulation: Rabbit vibrators that target internal and external sweet spots simultaneously.

Determine how the toy will fit into your shared intimacy. If you are shopping for lesbian sex toys or partner play, consider versatile options like strap-on dildos, strapless vibrators, or remote-controlled toys that allow your partner to take the reins. For solo play, focus purely on your personal comfort, size preferences, and favorite vibration patterns.

Always prioritize body-safe, nonporous sex toy materials. Medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel are hypoallergenic, easy to sanitize, and completely free of harmful phthalates. If choosing budget-friendly porous materials like TPE or TPR, always use them with a condom and clean them thoroughly.

If you are a beginner, start small. Look for toys with insertable lengths under 5 inches and a slim girth to allow your body to adjust. You can always upgrade to larger sizes or specialized shapes (like curved shafts for targeted G-spot or prostate hits) once you know what feels best.

Safest nonporous sex toy materials

Nonporous materials do not have microscopic holes, meaning they cannot trap bacteria and are 100% body-safe. The gold standards include:

• Medical-Grade Silicone: Flexible, durable, and warms up to body temperature. Note: You must never use silicone lube with silicone toys, as it will permanently dissolve the material.
• Borosilicate Glass & Stainless Steel: Hypoallergenic, completely rigid, and excellent for temperature play (can be warmed or cooled under water). They are highly recommended for G-spot, prostate, and anal stimulation.
• ABS Plastic: A smooth, rigid plastic commonly used for the hard shells of vibrating bullets and wands.

Porous materials

Porous materials have tiny microscopic pockets that can harvest bacteria over time, even after being washed. They include:

• TPE / TPR (Thermoplastic Elastomer/Rubber): Very flexible, soft, and realistic texture, but requires meticulous cleaning and drying.
• Jelly Rubber & PVC/Vinyl: Often used in cheap, entry-level novelty items. They frequently contain chemical plasticizers (phthalates) and have a strong distinct chemical odor. If you use jelly or PVC toys, it is safest to cover them with a condom during use.

Nonporous materials like medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel are vastly superior because they do not have microscopic holes. They are 100% body-safe sex toy materials that can be easily sanitized to remove all bacteria.

Conversely, porous materials (like jelly rubber, vinyl, and latex dildos) trap bodily fluids and bacteria inside invisible surface pockets. Even after a thorough wash, they can harbor microbes that lead to bacterial vaginosis (BV), yeast infections, or UTIs.

This is why Wet For Her dildos are made from high quality materials, such as 100% medical grade silicone to ensure all products are phthalate-free while providing a silky texture that is easy to clean and maintain.

Regular sex toy cleaning prevents harmful bacteria buildup, reduces the risk of infections (like UTIs or BV), and extends the lifespan of your adult novelties.

Use a specialized antibacterial foam sex toy cleaner or mild, unscented soap and warm water. Avoid harsh chemicals, alcohol, or dish soaps, which can degrade the material and cause skin irritation.

Silicone, glass, and metal sex toys

Because silicone, glass, and stainless steel are nonporous sex toy materials, they are the easiest to sanitize:

• Wash thoroughly with warm water and soap or toy cleaner.
• Pro-tip: 100% non-vibrating silicone, glass, and metal toys can usually be boiled for 3–5 minutes for deep sterilization.

If you are new to penetration, start with an insertable length of 4 to 5 inches and a slim girth (around 1.2 to 1.4 inches in diameter). This range allows your pelvic floor muscles to relax and adjust to new sensations without causing strain or discomfort.

When browsing, look for the Size Guide and two distinct measurements listed on the product page:

• Total vs. Insertable Length: Total length includes the base or handle. Look specifically for insertable length to know exactly how much of the toy goes inside you.
• Diameter: Diameter is the width of the toy at its widest point. Girth is the circumference (the measurement all the way around). You can find the girth by multiplying the diameter by 3.14.

While your body produces natural lubrication when aroused, using a dedicated sex toy lubricant is highly recommended every single time. Lube reduces friction, enhances physical sensations, prevents microscopic tears in sensitive skin, and allows the toy to glide effortlessly for maximum pleasure.

Let’s just say it – lube and sex toys are like peanut butter and jelly. You can never have “too much” lube, especially when trying out a new dildo.

Yes. At Wet For Her, our pleasure products are anatomically and ergonomically designed specifically for women, sapphic couples, and the LGBTQ+ community.

While generic adult stores sell mass-market products, our sex toys are engineered by experts who understand the nuances of queer intimacy. Choosing an intentionally designed lesbian dildo changes your sexual experience in a few key ways:

• Ergonomic for Shared Intimacy: Our toys are sculpted to optimize angles, flexibility, and comfort during partner play, making them the perfect fit for a dildo harness or double-ended use.
• Dual Stimulation: Many of our designs focus heavily on simultaneous clitoral and internal stimulation, aligning precisely with female anatomy and response patterns.
• Community-Tested Quality: We invest heavily in community testing and product development to ensure every item delivers safe, reliable, and maximum pleasure.

If you need personalized recommendations or tips on how to choose your first toy, our team is always here to help you navigate your sexual wellness journey.