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4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
542 Reviews

RideHer™ Boxer Underwear Strap-On Harness

$47.95 $59.95 20% off

Boxer O-Ring Harness: Play Boldly and Move Freely—No Straps Required

Designed for those who take charge in the bedroom, this underwear-style harness is destined to become your go-to for confident, no-nonsense play. With a strategically placed O-ring, these... Show More +

Size Inclusive
Flexible O-Ring
Machine Washable
Bullet Vibe Pocket
Size: XS-S
Color: Black
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Materials:

Fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex

Elastic Band: 55% Nylon, 45% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

The Boxer O-Ring Harness by Wet For Her combines bold design with everyday ease, offering endless ways to pack, play, and turn up the heat. Front and center is the sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers hug your body like they were tailor-made. Whether you’re gearing up for action or just wearing them out and about, the supportive 1.75” waistband keeps you ready no matter where the day (or night) takes you. 

But we didn’t stop there. The inner flaps behind the O-ring unlock even more possibilities. Keep them closed to focus all your attention on your partner, or open them up to experience the pulse-pounding sensations of a Pleasure Base dildo or a double dildo.

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators. Because who says you can’t get off while driving your partner wild?

Available in sizes XS to 5X, these boxers are made to fit every body. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller size for a secure, no-slip fit. Easy to clean and machine washable, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is built to keep up with all your adventures. 

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Compatible with

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RideHer Boxer/Brief Size Guide

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist/Hip (in) Low Waist/Hip (cm) EU UK
XS-S 27-32" 69-81 cm 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36" 84-91 cm 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44" 94-112 cm 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47" 112-119 cm 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52" 119-132 cm 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60" 132-150 cm 54-58 22-24
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Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$47.95 $59.95 20% OFF
Rainbow - Bullet Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Rainbow - Strap-On Dildo View 1

Rainbow Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
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Take charge in the bedroom

Reinforced O-ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring is built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Stretchy cotton blend

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps.

Dual bullet pockets

The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge.

4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
Based on 542 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 448 Total 4 star reviews: 80 Total 3 star reviews: 9 Total 2 star reviews: 2 Total 1 star reviews: 3
97%would recommend these products
Reviews Summary
Customers say these boxer-style harnesses are comfortable and easy to put on compared to traditional strap-ons. The material feels soft, stays secure, and the design keeps hands free during use. Many appreciate the quick setup and minimal straps. Common feedback notes the fit runs small, so sizing up is recommended. Some mention the O-ring could be larger for different toy sizes, and a few report the toy can shift slightly during vigorous movement. Most praise the quality, durability, and how the harness feels more natural than conventional styles.
542 reviews
  • AH
    Anisa H.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Just as described

    Fit snug and comfortable. I e only tried it with a lightweight dildo but I hope it holds up for something more substantial.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you for this wonderful review of our RideHer Boxer, Anisa! 💜 We're so happy to hear that the fit is snug and comfortable - that's exactly what we designed it to deliver! We're confident it will hold up beautifully with more substantial options too, as we've built our RideHer to handle whatever you throw at it! We love that it's matching the description perfectly and giving you that comfortable experience you're looking for. Thank you for those fantastic 5 stars! ✨

  • KC
    Kalani C.
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Non-Binary
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Amazing

    Love these boxers! So much comfier than a normal harness!

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you for this amazing review of our RideHer Boxer, Kalani! 💜 We're absolutely thrilled to hear you're loving them and that the comfort level is such a game changer compared to traditional harnesses! That's exactly what we designed our Boxer to deliver - all the function with way more comfort and ease. Thank you for those amazing 5 stars! ✨

  • CB
    Chrissy B.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I do not recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 1 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    Do not recommend

    My wife didn't like these at all.

  • JD
    Justine D.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    Comfy but a little tight

    Overall super nice material and easy to wash! The strap stays stays super secure but my partner and I do find that it runs a little small.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thanks so much for the 4 stars and helpful feedback, Justine! 💜 We're really glad to hear you're loving the material quality and how easy the RideHer Boxer is to keep clean - that's something we put a lot of thought into! And it's awesome that the strap security is working perfectly for you two! Your point about it running a little small is super valuable sizing feedback - that kind of specific insight really helps our community know what to expect when choosing their size and maybe consider sizing up if they prefer a more relaxed fit! 😉 Thanks for taking the time to share such honest and helpful feedback about your experience!

  • CR
    Carmen R.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    A little small

    Comfortable but little small

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    Wet For Her
    2 weeks ago

    Thanks so much for the 4 stars and honest feedback, Carmen! 💜 So glad to hear you're finding the RideHer Boxers comfortable - that's such an important part of the experience! Your point about them running a little small is really valuable sizing insight that helps our community know what to expect when choosing their size. We totally appreciate you taking the time to share that specific feedback! 😉 Thanks for giving them a try and for the helpful review!