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Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
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Tomboii Boxer Ubderwear Strap-On Harness

$119.95

You'll always feel stylish with this black Tomboii boxer harness. Providing plenty of functionality without compromising on style at any stage, this harness mixes technical features and pure comfort.

The Tomboii boxer features a pair of elasticated O-rings, which perfectly fit dildo toys from 

Size: XS
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Materials:

77% Nylon, 23% Spandex

Are you looking for a new and improved underwear harness? The Tomboii boxer brief harness is one of our best-selling queer and lesbian sex harnesses, offering superior style, comfort, and support.

Whether you are new to the thrilling world of a hands-free sex life or you are a pro at using a strap-on harness, the Tomboii boxer brief harness promises to deliver everything you need to enjoy your favorite queer and lesbian sex toys to the max. Keep reading to find out more about the Tomboii boxer and how it can transform your sex life.

How does the Tomboii boxer brief harness work?

Designed by SparePart Hardwear and made in the US, the Tomboi strap on is an athletic-style pants harness that flatters and fits the body comfortably. With no fiddly straps or buckles, the Tomboi can be slipped on and off like underwear. It’s made of lightweight and breathable fabrics that draw moisture away from the body, keeping it cool when things get hot! It’s also machine washable.

Is the Tomboii boxer brief harness sex toy compatible?

The Tomboii boxer brief is compatible with all our best-selling strap on dildos, allowing you to make the most out of your new underwear harness. The o’ring is stretchy and can accommodate a variety of toys measuring 1.10 to 2.25 inches in diameter including double dildos. Toys can be inserted and removed with ease. As the o’ring is elasticated, it does not lose its shape. As an optional choice, harness wearers can position the two in-built internal panels as a barrier between base and skin. The Tomboi SpareParts harness features two internal pockets which are located above and below the o’ring. These clever little pockets can conveniently hold a bullet vibe or two! When used with bullet vibes, these fall behind the toy and not directly between partners.

How to enjoy the Tomboii boxer brief harness?

As a leading supplier of high-quality harness underwear, Tomboii slides on and off with ease, without any chaffing, pinching, or discomfort. Machine washable, the Tomboii harness brief can be worn all day and night for enhanced convenience and pleasure.

Whether you fancy an impromptu stap-on session or you simply want to build up excitement for the night ahead, the Spareparts Tomboii harness is one sex aid that every lesbian and queer couple needs.The tomboy harness is available in racy red and classic black and comes in sizes XS to 5X, so it is suitable for all body shapes and sizes.

Not sure what size Tomboi strap-on harness to choose? Check out our handy size guide below and find the perfect fit for your next sex session.

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Tomboii Harness by Spareparts

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around the fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.
Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) US/North America Australia
XS 26-28 66-71 2-4 8-10
S 29-32 74-81 4-6 10-12
M 33-37 84-94 6-8 12-14
L 38-40 97-102 8-10 16
XL 41-44 104-112 10-12 18
2XL 45-48 114-122 14-16 20
3XL 49-52 124-132 16-18 22
4XL 50-56 127-142 18-20 24
5XL 57-59 145-150 20-22 26
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Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
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41 reviews
  • MM
    Michelle M.
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    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    7 months ago
    My wife Kate

    My wife Kate Donato bought this to use with the straight coworker who is 22 years younger her that she cheated on me with and the dragged me through months pretending she wanted to save our marriage while still carrying on. Hey Kate! Check the email associated with your account! 😘

  • SM
    Shawnette M.
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    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    7 months ago
    My wife loves them

    Comfy, easy to get ready.

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    Wet For Her
    6 months ago

    Thanks! We’re glad it’s comfy and quick to prep—ready for fun in no time! 🙌✨

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    lillian m.
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    I recommend this product
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    1 year ago
    4 Stars

    Its a cute harness, but figuring out your size is more complicated than it should be. I order a size too large thinking i had it figured out. The bottom O ring feels kinda useless, it sits too low to be functional, especially with heavier dildos. The top O ring works better for that as it pulls away less from the body. What also helps is if you wear a pair of underwear underneath to help make it fit better

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    Wet For Her
    1 year ago

    Hi Lillian, Thank you so much for your feedback on the Tomboii Boxer Brief harness. As a tip: The bottom O'Ring can be used for dildos with clitoral stimulation bases, dildo bases, or a double dildo.

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    Anonymous
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    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 years ago
    5 Stars

    The sizing guides did not help. I spent 130$ on the boxer strap on and now I will have to get an exchange and hope I order the right size. If items are not refundable or full clean exchange the sizing guidelines should be more accurate.

  • A
    Anonymous
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    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 years ago
    Great shorts

    great shorts. great quality and fits perfect

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    Wet For Her
    2 years ago

    Hi, We hope you continue to have fun with the Tomboi Boxer Brief Strap-On Harness. Thank you!