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Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
160 Reviews

Tomboi Brief Underwear Strap-On Harness

$89.95

The Spareparts Tomboi brief harness is a sporty style underwear harness that slips on and off like underwear. It's lightweight with breathable fabrics that move with the body comfortably and securely. The stretchy o’ring means a variety of dildos can be inserted and removed with ease. It’s machine washable and comes with a cute, compact storage bag too!

Color: Black
Size: XXS
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Materials:

  • 77% Nylon
  • 23% Spandex

Do you love strap-on sex but struggle to find the right harness underwear? If yes, then the Tomboi brief harness is about to make all your fantasies come true. Made by lesbians for lesbians and made in the US. One of our best-selling underwear for strap on garments, the Tomboi brief strap-on o’ring harness is perfect for queer, lesbian, bisexual, trans, and gender non-conforming couples who want to indulge in a little (or a lot) of pack-and-play. Whether you are new to strap-on sex or you have been enjoying hands-free queer penetration for some time, the Tomboi boxer brief harness promises to transform your sex life.

So, what makes this strap on harness so great? Well, to start, it securely fits toys of all shapes and sizes so you can play with your existing dildo collection or experiment with some of our new sex toys lesbian and queer folk just can’t get enough of.

The Tomboi boxer brief harness also has handy pockets for bullet vibrators so you and your partner can enjoy simultaneous g spot and clitoral stimulation.

The Tomboi harness is a sporty style underwear harness that slips on and off like underwear. It's lightweight with breathable fabrics that move with the body comfortably and securely. The stretchy o’ring means a variety of dildos can be inserted and removed with ease. It’s machine washable and comes with a cute, compact storage bag too!

Designed by SparePart Hardwear and made in the US, the Tomboi strap-on is an athletic-style pants harness that flatters and fits the body comfortably. With no fiddly straps or buckles, the Tomboi can be slipped on and off like underwear. It’s made of lightweight and breathable fabrics that draw moisture away from the body, keeping it cool when things get hot! It’s also machine washable.

The o’ring is stretchy and can accommodate a variety of toys measuring 1.10 to 2.25 inches in diameter including double dildos. Toys can be inserted and removed with ease. As the o’ring is elasticated, it does not lose its shape. As an optional choice, harness wearers can position the two in-built internal panels as a barrier between base and skin. The Tomboi SpareParts harness features two internal pockets which are located above and below the o’ring. These clever little pockets can conveniently hold a bullet vibe or two! When used with bullet vibes, these fall behind the toy and not directly between partners.

It’s available in red or black, and in sizes XS – 5X. Please refer to the sizing chart for exact measurements.

  • How to use the Tomboi boxer brief harness 
    The Tomboi boxer brief harness is one of our top-rated Spareparts products and is designed to be enjoyed by the entire LGBTQIA+ community. Simple to slip on and incredibly comfortable to wear, the Tomboi strap-on harness can be used for both packing and penetrative play, or both!Simply select the Wet For Her dildo or FTM packer you would like to use and then attach it to the elastic o ring on the front of your underwear. 

  • How to clean your Tomboi harness
    The Tomboi o ring harness is machine washable, which means it doesn’t matter if you use condoms or lube or both when you are playing, as you can simply slip off your harness and pop it into the washer. We do not recommend that you tumble dry this product as this may damage the elastic o rings.

Compatible with

Tomboi, Sasha and Bella Harnesses by Spareparts

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) US/North America Australia
XS 26-28 66-71 2-4 8-10
S 29-32 74-81 4-6 10-12
M 33-37 84-94 6-8 12-14
L 38-40 97-102 8-10 16
XL 41-44 104-112 10-12 18
2XL 45-48 114-122 14-16 20
3XL 49-52 124-132 16-18 22
4XL 50-56 127-142 18-20 24
5XL 57-59 145-150 20-22 26
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4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
Based on 160 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 138 Total 4 star reviews: 21 Total 3 star reviews: 0 Total 2 star reviews: 1 Total 1 star reviews: 0
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160 reviews
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    Eliza
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    3 months ago
    Product is great; packaging is QUESTIONABLE

    True to size and great product, HOWEVER, the "discreet packaging" says in big letters, on the front, "fun inside, recycle the package". Really? Do we need this? Is that what you claim "discreet packaging"?

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    Anonymous
    Flag of United States
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    7 months ago
    Good buy

    I underestimated this product, however it worked very well.

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    Wet For Her
    6 months ago

    I knooow right?! It totally sneaks up on you—in the best way! 😲💥

  • JG
    Jeff G.
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    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    7 months ago
    Tomboy harness

    Fast shipping…fit perfectly…worked great!

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    Wet For Her
    6 months ago

    Sweet! So glad it arrived quickly, fit like a dream, and delivered the goods! 😉 Enjoy! 😄

  • RM
    Rae M.
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    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    1 year ago
    little tight

    ordered a size medium and it fit a little fight imo. I liked the built in o-ring though. the snug fit does enhance some feeling so that is a plus. the piece I had was a teeny bit smaller than for the smallest oring so often compensating a little for that but still enjoyable and my partner also appreciates the ease of maneuvering with the briefs on.

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    Wet For Her
    1 year ago

    Hi Rae Moon, We thank you for your feedback on the Tomboi brief harness!

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    Anonymous
    Flag of United States
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    1 year ago
    They're fine.

    These are fine. I sized down and they feel tight but in the moment they get loosened somehow. I am constantly having to readjust, so I'm planning to buy a new one with actual straps. This works for now, but I know there's gotta be something better out there.