We’re not talking about prescribed relationship roles, we’re talking about roleplay. Lesbian couples can have endless fun and endless pleasure through the exploration of various role playing scenarios in the bedroom and beyond. Keep reading to learn everything you want to know about lesbian sex roleplay.
What is roleplaying?
In a sexual context, roleplaying means taking on a different or new identity in a sex scenario. This type of roleplaying can flip the script or spice things up, embodying fantasies and heightening pleasure before, during, and after sex. The scenarios can range from mundane to fantastic, from sweet to kinky, from innocent to riddled with taboos. There are pretty much endless options to choose from or invent, infinite combinations of characters and storylines. We’ll get into a whole spectrum of ideas for sex role play.
What are some ideas for sex role play?
The limits for roleplaying are really only your imagination. And we’re about to get into some of our favorite ideas for lesbian sex roleplaying. Our roundup includes bdsm roleplay ideas, femdom roleplay ideas, threesome roleplay ideas, nsfw roleplay ideas, and many others for good measure. Ready to take on the role of a lifetime? Keep scrolling for some lesbian role play ideas to get you fantasizing immediately.
Soft lesbian role play ideas
Here are some scenarios on the sweeter softer side of things. Let’s call them the PG-rated lesbian roleplay ideas. In a lesbian context, you can choose to play the roles as women, or explore other gender identities. It’s totally up to you and your sexual fantasy.
Repair person and homeowner
This one’s a classic. Something at home needs to be repaired – a leak, a lock, a jammed window. You call a repair person who happens to have the right…ehem…tools to fix the problem. And they get their hands all over it (i.e. you).
Cheerleader and athlete
This roleplay can be pre or post-game, if you will. Maybe the cheerleader needs to hype the athlete up for a big win, or maybe wants to reward them in all sorts of ways after a great performance on the field or court or whatever your specific storyline is.
Strangers at a bar
Now this lesbian sex roleplay can actually start out at a bar – you can pretend to be meeting for the first time, flirting, touching, and then going home together. And then that’s where the real fun begins, as you enter into a sexual experience as if you were strangers who met at a bar. Let your natural chemistry take over.
Nurse and patient
Feeling a little…hot and need someone to take care of you? Let your sexy (and maybe, bossy) nurse make you feel all better.
Painter and muse
Let them paint you like one of their French girls…or pretend to. The artist/muse relationship is all about gaze and desire, and this can be a pretty sexy scenario to play out.
The erotic massage
Ah, another classic roleplay idea. You can really set the scene for this one, with candles, massage oils, sexy music, maybe even a real massage table. Take turns giving each other sensual, erotic massages, until maybe one or both of you ends up with a happy ending!
Kinky lesbian role play ideas
In this section we’ll get into the kinkier end of things, exploring bdsm roleplay ideas, femdom roleplay ideas, threesome roleplay ideas, and some seriously nsfw roleplay ideas. There’s no judgment here.
Bdsm role play ideas
Playing with dominant/submissive roles is all about boundaries. You need to set them and then push them to the limits of pleasure and excitement. For bdsm roleplay, you might want some accessories, like blindfolds or restraints, to tease, taunt and elicit ecstasy. Some scenarios that work here: teacher/student, boss/employee, soldier/civilian. You can always switch roles, too, to flip the script and ultimately, the power-pleasure dynamic.
Femdom role play ideas
Femdom is the art of female domination and is a subset of bdsm roleplay. Like bdsm, it can be pretty extreme, involving dominance, submission, punishment, and bondage. You and your partner need to consent and set rules beforehand. A couple of femdom roleplay ideas for you: A spanking roleplay, maybe in the servant-royal dynamic? Or why not get them to worship every single part of you, obeying every little command you utter?
Threesome role play ideas
Two’s company and three’s a party, right? Let’s get into some steamy threesome roleplay ideas. Simply adding a third into any of the roleplay scenarios already mentioned can work its magic. Take the repair person/homeowner situation. And what if the spouse comes home in the middle of the “repair”? Or with the nurse/patient scenario, perhaps the doctor walks in and needs to treat both of you? Get creative, get playful. Why not write a third role into the script? That will only create more power dynamics to navigate, more pleasure to be had.
Nsfw role play ideas
On the kinkiest end of the spectrum, our roleplay recommendations include things like scripting scenarios in which a dom might edge a sub for hours, getting them so close to orgasm, and then stopping. Or, perhaps, humiliation play might figure into this kind of role play session.
Parting words on lesbian sex role play
Ultimately, roleplaying is for everyone. It can be liberating and exciting. Why not try on a new identity or role or idea to explore the possibilities of power and pleasure? Why not live your fantasies with a partner you trust?
When it comes to lesbian sex roleplay, there are no predefined roles or scripts. Your imagination is the most important tool here, though of course, you might consider adding in a sex toy or two to bring your roleplay ideas into sharp focus. We recommend strap-ons or double dildos for a shared sexual fantasy. They can help you go deeper and get more pleasure out of any experience. Each toy can work itself into your fantasy in a different way – it’s just about finding the right fit for your fantasy.
