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4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
797 Reviews

Bundle RideHer™ Boxer Harness + WondHer Strap-on

$95.90 $119.90 20% off

The Dynamic Duo You Won’t Want to Take Off

Two best-sellers come together (pun intended) in one unbeatable duo that’s guaranteed to take your breath away. First up is the smooth, bendable WondHer™ dildo. It may look simple,... Show More +

RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
Size:XS-S
Color:Black
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo
Color:Purple
Size:S

Highlights

WondHer Dildo:

  • Bendable Shaft: Holds its position for perfect angles and endless play possibilities.
  • Suction Cup Base: Sticks to any smooth surface for hands-free fun.
  • Body-Safe Silicone: 100% medical-grade silicone, free of phthalates, latex, parabens, and fragrances.

Boxer Harness:

  • Versatile O-Ring: Securely holds dildos 1” to 1.75” in diameter.
  • Vibrator-Ready: Two discreet pockets hold bullet vibrators (sold separately).
  • Size-Inclusive: Available in XS–5X for every body.

Details

Product Dimensions:

WondHer:

  • Small: Insertable length 5.75”, diameter 1.2” (approx. two fingers wide)
  • Medium: Insertable length 6”, diameter 1.35” (approx. three fingers wide)
  • Large: Insertable length 6.25”, diameter 1.5” (approx. four fingers wide)

Boxer Harness:

Available in sizes XS–5X. Size down if you’re between sizes to ensure a secure, no-slip fit.

Return:

We accept returns of harnesses within 14 days of delivery. The product box must be in perfect condition, completely closed and sealed. If you have any questions about the size you have chosen, please consult the size guide and check your measurements before ordering or opening the item.

Benefits

Why Choose the WondHer™ + Boxer Pack?

This pack brings together two of Wet For Her’s most versatile bestsellers into one irresistible duo, delivering the perfect blend of comfort, control, and pulse-pounding pleasure. 

First up is WondHer™, a fan-favorite dildo with a smooth, bendable shaft that adjusts to your every move. Whether you’re teasing, thrusting, or hitting just the right angle, WondHer™ delivers spot-on pleasure exactly where your partner wants it.

Pair it with the Boxer Harness, and things heat up fast. Soft, breathable, and designed to move with you, this harness fits like your favorite pair of undies but works like a pro. The sturdy O-ring keeps your toy securely in place for seamless play—no straps to adjust, no slipping to distract, just you and your partner, fully locked in. And with two discreet pockets for bullet vibrators, topping becomes just as pleasurable as receiving.

Sleek, simple, and built to play as hard as you do, the WondHer™ + Boxer Harness Pack is perfect for exploring new positions, turning up the heat, or perfecting your rhythm.

Pair It With:

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Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

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Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
Rainbow 2.0 - Our Bullet Vibrator stuns ✨ View 1

Rainbow 2.0 Our Bullet Vibrator st...

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Mini Bullet - Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Mini Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$32.35 $35.95 10% OFF

How to Measure


  • Total Length - The size from tip to base. This could include parts of the dildo intended for holding, suction cups  or grinding base.
  • Insertable Length -  The 'insertable length' explains how much of dildo can potentially be put inside you.
  • Diameter - The size of the shaft (or widest part) measured straight across. 
Diameter Fingers
WondHer Small 6.7” - 17.0 cm 5.5” - 14 cm 1.2” - 3.0 cm 2
WondHer Medium 7.0” - 17.8 cm 6.7” - 17 cm 1.35” - 3.5 cm 3
WondHer Large 7.25” - 18.4 cm 7.0” - 17.8 cm 1.5” - 3.8 cm 4

Size may vary from 1 to 3mm as they are handpoured

Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS-S 27-32 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
Rainbow 2.0 - Our Bullet Vibrator stuns ✨ View 1

Rainbow 2.0 Our Bullet Vibrator st...

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Mini Bullet - Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Mini Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$32.35 $35.95 10% OFF

What's Included

4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
557 Reviews

RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness

Reinforced O-ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring is built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Stretchy cotton blend

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps.

Dual bullet pockets

The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge.

RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
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4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
Based on 797 reviews
100%would recommend these products
Reviews Summary
Customers say these boxers are comfortable and easy to wear compared to traditional harnesses. The bendable design stays in position during use, and the soft material feels pleasant. Many reviews highlight the secure fit that doesn't slide, though some note sizing runs slightly large. Users appreciate the quick setup and versatile design. A few mention the o-ring could be larger, and some experienced minor fit adjustments needed. Overall, customers praise the quality construction and find them significantly more convenient than standard alternatives.
797 reviews
  • RG
    Rob G.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Male
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    4 days ago
    Excellent fit

    Bought these for my wife and she absolutely loves them. She said they're super comfortable and it feels like she's not wearing a harness at all. She only wished she found these years ago.

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    Wet For Her
    3 days ago

    Thank you so much for this review, Rob!! 💜 We're so glad to hear that your wife is absolutely loving the RideHer Boxer and that the fit is delivering that incredible comfort she's been looking for! There's nothing better than finding a harness that feels like a second skin and lets you both focus completely on the fun. Thank you for taking the time to share the love and for being part of the WFH fam!! ✨🌈

  • RD
    Renée D. A.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    6 days ago
    Perfect comfort

    Literally perfect and comfy as hell. Never had boxers this comfy.

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    Wet For Her
    6 days ago

    Thank you so much for this review of our RideHer Boxer, Renée! We're absolutely thrilled to hear that comfort is hitting just right for you!! 💜 That's exactly what we're going for, a harness that feels amazing to wear. Thanks for taking the time to share the love!! ✨

  • JR
    Jen R.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Way better than a harness

    Never tried the briefs before until these. Love them way better than the old school harness. No leather straps sliding down, no awkward time period to figure out how to get it on in the dark and no marks from the buckles. Love it. The dildo does slide around a little bit but I think that gets some getting used to the positioning of the base on my body.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    HARNESS BRIEFS FOR THE WIN!! 🥳🔥🙌 Thank you for your review, Jen! Nothing beats ditching buckles and sliding straps for effortless comfort! We are so hyped that your first pair of harness briefs was a massive upgrade for you! Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with the community, enjoy every session!! 💜✨

  • HE
    Hayley E.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Great

    Great pants, comfortable and work well.

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you for your review on our Boxer Harness, Hayley! Nothing beats a comfortable harness boxer that gets the job done right! We are super hyped that you're loving them. Thank you so much for the love and for being part of the Wet For Her fam!! 💜🌈

  • JB
    Jessica B.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Dildo

    Very pleasant

    Translated from French
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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for this review, Jessica!! 🥳 We're super happy to hear that you're loving it! Thanks for being an awesome part of the Wet For Her fam!! 🔥✨