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4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
513 Reviews

RideHer™ Boxer Underwear Strap-On Harness

$46.75 $54.95 15% off

Boxer O-Ring Harness: Play Boldly and Move Freely—No Straps Required

Designed for those who take charge in the bedroom, this underwear-style harness is destined to become your go-to for confident, no-nonsense play. With a strategically placed O-ring, these... Show More +

Size Inclusive
Flexible O-Ring
Machine Washable
Bullet Vibe Pocket
Size: XS-S
Color: Black
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Materials:

Fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex

Elastic Band: 55% Nylon, 45% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

The Boxer O-Ring Harness by Wet For Her combines bold design with everyday ease, offering endless ways to pack, play, and turn up the heat. Front and center is the sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers hug your body like they were tailor-made. Whether you’re gearing up for action or just wearing them out and about, the supportive 1.75” waistband keeps you ready no matter where the day (or night) takes you. 

But we didn’t stop there. The inner flaps behind the O-ring unlock even more possibilities. Keep them closed to focus all your attention on your partner, or open them up to experience the pulse-pounding sensations of a Pleasure Base dildo or a double dildo.

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators. Because who says you can’t get off while driving your partner wild?

Available in sizes XS to 5X, these boxers are made to fit every body. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller size for a secure, no-slip fit. Easy to clean and machine washable, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is built to keep up with all your adventures. 

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Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS-S 27-32 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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Compatible with

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BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$50.95 $59.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Strap-On Dildo View 1

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$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

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Take charge in the bedroom

Reinforced O-ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring is built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Stretchy cotton blend

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps.

Dual bullet pockets

The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge.

How to Use RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness

4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
Based on 513 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 421 Total 4 star reviews: 73 Total 3 star reviews: 10 Total 2 star reviews: 2 Total 1 star reviews: 7
96%would recommend these products
Reviews Summary
Customers say these boxer harnesses are significantly more comfortable than traditional strap-on harnesses, providing better intimacy and control. Many appreciate the easy setup and secure fit that holds accessories firmly in place. Users consistently mention the soft, high-quality material and comfortable all-day wear. However, frequent feedback addresses sizing concerns, with many noting the harnesses run small and recommending sizing up. Some mention the O-ring size is limited and difficult to change. While most praise the snug fit for functionality, a few find the fabric stretches during use, requiring more hip movement for control. Overall, customers prefer these over traditional harnesses for their comfort and ease of use.
513 reviews
  • KD
    Kenneth D.
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Male
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    3 minutes ago
    Fits great

    As it looks and fits comfortably.

  • CE
    Cheutney E.
    Verified Buyer
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    6 days ago
    I like the way they fit and look.

    My only suggestion is that it can be challenging to get the dildo through the hole initially. Other than that it’s really great!

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    Wet For Her
    5 days ago

    Thank you so much for the 5 stars! 💜
    We’re really happy to hear you love how it fits and looks, and we appreciate the helpful note about getting the dildo through the opening, feedback like this truly helps. So glad you’re enjoying it overall!

  • JB
    Julian B.
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Transgender
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Amazing boxers

    The boxers are really good quality and they fit perfectly.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for the 5 stars! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    We're thrilled to hear you love the quality and that the fit is perfect! It means so much to us that you think our RideHer Boxer is amazing 💜 Your feedback really made our day! ✨

  • AS
    Aisha S.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    great harness

    i wouldn’t even call it good for a boxer harness, it’s good period. great control and easy to wash.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for the 5 stars, Aisha! ⭐
    We're thrilled to hear you love the control and how easy it is to wash! It means so much to us that you think it's just great period, not just good for a boxer harness 💜 Your feedback really made our day! ✨

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    Jenny A.
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    IT’S SO GOOD

    It was SO COMFY for my wife to wear! And IT WORKS! 😂 Get you this one for comfy love time.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Jenny, this review made us smile so big! 😊 We absolutely love hearing that your wife found the RideHer Boxer SO comfy - that's exactly what we designed it for! And knowing "IT WORKS" (love the enthusiasm! 😂) makes our hearts so happy. There's nothing better than creating those perfect comfy love time moments for couples like you two. Thanks for sharing the love and for choosing Wet For Her! 💖✨