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RideHer Boxer Lingerie Strap-On Harness

Name: RideHer Boxer - Lingerie Strap-On Harness
Brand: Wet For Her
Price: 46.75 USD
Availability: InStock
Rating: 4.8 (485 reviews)

$46.75 ~~$54.95~~ 15% off

Boxer O-Ring Harness: Play Boldly and Move Freely—No Straps Required

Designed for those who take charge in the bedroom, this underwear-style harness is destined to become your go-to for confident, no-nonsense play. With a strategically placed O-ring, these boxers lock your favorite toy or packer firmly in place, keeping it secure no matter how wild things get. Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps—just pure, uninterrupted pleasure with every grind.

But who says topping is all about giving? The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge. Whether you’re pushing boundaries or perfecting your signature moves, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is ready for whatever naughty ideas you’ve got.

Size: XS-S

XS-S M-L L-XL XL-2X 2X-3X 4X-5X

Product variants

Materials:

Fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex

Elastic Band: 55% Nylon, 45% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

The Boxer O-Ring Harness by Wet For Her combines bold design with everyday ease, offering endless ways to pack, play, and turn up the heat. Front and center is the sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers hug your body like they were tailor-made. Whether you’re gearing up for action or just wearing them out and about, the supportive 1.75” waistband keeps you ready no matter where the day (or night) takes you.

But we didn’t stop there. The inner flaps behind the O-ring unlock even more possibilities. Keep them closed to focus all your attention on your partner, or open them up to experience the pulse-pounding sensations of a Pleasure Base dildo or a double dildo.

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators. Because who says you can’t get off while driving your partner wild?

Available in sizes XS to 5X, these boxers are made to fit every body. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller size for a secure, no-slip fit. Easy to clean and machine washable, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is built to keep up with all your adventures.

Pair It With:

Fusion strap-on dildo to keep things simple yet satisfyingly bold.
Union 2.0 vibrating double dildo to explore synchronized pleasure and shared sensations.
Rainbow bullet vibrator to add a spark of excitement with every move.

Compatible with

Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:

Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size	Low Waist or Hip (in)	Low Waist or Hip (cm)	Europe	UK
XS-S	27-32	69-81	34-36	8-12
M-L	33-36	84-91	38-42	12-16
L-XL	37-44	94-112	42-46	16-18
XL-2X	44-47	112-119	46-50	18-20
2X-3X	47-52	119-132	50-54	20-22
4X-5X	52-60	132-150	54-58	22-24

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How to Use RideHer Boxer - Lingerie Strap-On Harness

4.8

Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars

Based on 485 reviews

Total 5 star reviews: 403 Total 4 star reviews: 70 Total 3 star reviews: 8 Total 2 star reviews: 2 Total 1 star reviews: 2

98%would recommend these products

Reviews Summary

Customers say these boxer harnesses are significantly more comfortable than traditional strap-on harnesses, providing better intimacy and control. Many appreciate the easy setup and secure fit that holds accessories firmly in place. Users consistently mention the soft, high-quality material and comfortable all-day wear. However, frequent feedback addresses sizing concerns, with many noting the harnesses run small and recommending sizing up. Some mention the O-ring size is limited and difficult to change. While most praise the snug fit for functionality, a few find the fabric stretches during use, requiring more hip movement for control. Overall, customers prefer these over traditional harnesses for their comfort and ease of use.

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Shakema T.
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What is your gender? Female
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
3 minutes ago
Great Material
Great use for Harness
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A. B.
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What is your gender? Non-Binary
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
23 hours ago
Great but it will slip after a while
Works amazing at first, but the silicone ring and strap on the inside are not secure enough-- the dildo base slips around very easily if you move too much. It's great if you don't have the grinding base dildos. There's not enough support in the back to keep it pressed to you. Maybe if you wore suspenders lol. My partner also got one and has trouble feeling anything at all because of how our toys won't stay properly. Otherwise it's good, no issues with the fit (S and M) etc. For normal straps it'll work just fine, and it does have two pockets for vibrators on the inside, both horizontal and vertical.
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Wet For Her
7 hours ago
Thanks so much for your honest 5-star review, A.! We really appreciate you sharing your detailed experience with the RideHer Boxer harness. We totally understand how important it is for everything to stay properly positioned during use. We also really appreciate you mentioning the dual vibrator pockets and how they're positioned - that's helpful info for other customers. Your honest insights about the support and compatibility with different toy types will definitely help others figure out if this harness will work for their specific needs 💜
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raven s.
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I recommend this product
What is your gender? Female
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
1 week ago
boxer harness
me and my fiancé prefer something like this because for me, the strap for the strap-on makes it feel different and weird. with this you can feel more close and comfortable with your partner :)
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Wet For Her
6 days ago
Thank you so much for your amazing 5 star review on our RideHer Boxer, Raven! 💜 We're so happy to hear that the boxer style gives you and your fiancé that closer, more comfortable connection you were looking for! ✨ Love that it's helping you both feel more natural and connected during play! Your feedback truly means the world to us! Thank you for being part of our community! 🫶
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Jessica S.
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I recommend this product
What is your gender? Female
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
2 weeks ago
Comfy!
Way more comfortable that the traditional harness!
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Wet For Her
2 weeks ago
Thank you so much for your amazing 5 star review on our Boxer Harness, Jessica! 💜 That comfort upgrade from traditional harnesses is exactly what we designed the RideHer to deliver! ✨ Your feedback truly means the world to us and we're so happy it's exceeding your expectations! Thank you for being part of our community! 🫶
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Jo
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Rated 5 out of 5 stars
3 weeks ago
Amazing!
This product is great! Me and my partner had tried multiple harnesses that were too tight, the wrong material, fit weird and just sucked. I said we needed one made by lesbians and then we found this site! This harness is perfect and we have had zero complaints since!
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Wet For Her
3 weeks ago
Thank you so much for your amazing 5 star review on our Boxer Harness, Jo! 💜 We're glad that, finally, you found the perfect fit with us! Your comment about needing one "made by lesbians" honestly made our hearts so full - that's exactly the authentic, community-centered approach we bring to everything we create! ✨ We're so happy that you and your partner have had zero complaints and that this harness is working perfectly for you both! Thank you for being part of our community and for sharing such wonderful feedback! 🫶