StartHer™ Adjustable Strap-On Harness
Start strong with style and function.
We named this one StartHer for a reason. Not only is it beginner-friendly, but it’s designed to get you and your partner revved up for endless naughty fun. StartHer is an adjustable O-ring harness that combines a tailored, secure fit with a sleek, classic design. Its simple yet stunning look molds perfectly to your curves while delivering incredible functionality—ideal for exploring (or perfecting) strap-on play with confidence and ease.
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Materials:
Made of polyester
4-Way adjustable straps fits US dress sizes 4–22 up to 60" (152cm) hips
Why Choose StartHer?
Step into the world of strap-on play with StartHer, an adjustable O-ring harness that’s as sexy as it is functional. Perfect for both curious first-timers and confident playtime pros, StartHer combines style, comfort, and versatility in one sleek package.
The elegant black straps frame your body in all the right ways, creating a flattering, curve-hugging fit that looks as good as it feels. Adjustable waist and leg straps ensure a secure, stay-put fit so you can focus on the passion, not the adjustments. StartHer’s soft chloroprene cushioning adds an extra layer of comfort, letting you stay in the moment no matter how heated things get.
Unlike Wet For Her’s Jock, Brief, or Boxer harnesses, StartHer is not a feel-through harness. Its closed design doesn’t allow for Pleasure Base to provide clitoral stimulation for the wearer. Instead, StartHer offers a smooth, supportive surface that’s ideal for strap-on play without distractions.
Pair it with flat-base dildos like Wet For Her’s Out, Rainbow, and Sunset strap-ons. The 1.5" stretchy O-ring securely holds your toy in place, making it easy to slide in and get straight to the fun.
*Note: NOT compatible with double dildos, stimulating-base dildos, or BumpHer dildo base cover.
Pair It With:
- Out dildo - A classic suction-base dildo and StartHer’s perfect match.
- Rainbow dildo - A colorful ode to our community that adds some extra pizazz
- Sunset dildo - A beautiful ombre dildo that makes a bold statement
- MMs.getherenow!Verified BuyerI recommend this productType of use? Couple UseRated 5 out of 5 stars2 days agoHarness
This is the perfect harness i love the way it sits on your cooch lol and not on the coochie bone so u can definitely feel it ifykyk
Was this helpful?WFWet For HerYesterdayThank you so much for this incredible review of our StartHer - Adjustable Strap-On Harness, Ms.getherenow! 💜 It's absolutely wonderful to hear that this is the perfect harness for you and that you love the way it sits - we totally get what you mean about the positioning and how amazing it feels! That's exactly what we designed the StartHer to deliver - that perfect combination of comfort and sensation in all the right places! We're so happy that you're loving the experience and can definitely feel it! Thank you for those fantastic 5 stars! ✨
- AAnonVerified BuyerI recommend this productWhat is your gender? MaleType of use? Couple UseRated 5 out of 5 stars4 days agoGood low budget harness
My boyfriend liked it, rings fit a larger toy, was comfortable and he enjoyed the vibrator pocket as well.
Was this helpful?WFWet For Her4 days agoThank you so much for this wonderful review of our StartHer - Adjustable Strap-On Harness, Anon! 💜 We're so glad that your boyfriend loved it and that it delivered on all the key features - the comfort, the rings fitting larger toys perfectly, and especially that vibrator pocket! It's fantastic to hear that you found great value with this harness and that it's working so well for you both! That's exactly what we designed the StartHer to deliver - that perfect combination of versatility, comfort, and functionality at an accessible price point! We're so happy that you're both enjoying the experience! Thank you for those fantastic 5 stars! ✨
- RRVerified BuyerI recommend this productWhat is your gender? FemaleType of use? Couple UseRated 5 out of 5 stars1 week agoGreat strap!
This is a great strap, it allows for good control. Both me and my GF are very happy with it. After trying it, my GF bought one to replace the shorts strap she has because she likes the control it gives much better.
Was this helpful?WFWet For Her1 week agoThank you so much for this fantastic review of our StartHer Adjustable Strap-On Harness, R! 💜 We're absolutely thrilled to hear that it's giving you both such great control and that you're both so happy with it! It's wonderful to know that your girlfriend loved the control it provides so much that she bought one to replace her old shorts strap - that's exactly the kind of superior performance and control we designed the StartHer™ to deliver! We're so excited that it's working so perfectly for both of you! Thank you for those fantastic 5 stars! ✨
- THTrish H.Verified BuyerI do not recommend this productWhat is your gender? FemaleRated 1 out of 5 stars3 weeks agoHorrible O ring design
Every toy falls out because the straps to tighten around your waist pull the O ring in every direction, making it impossible to use.
Was this helpful? - JOJade O.Verified BuyerI recommend this productWhat is your gender? FemaleType of use? Couple UseRated 5 out of 5 stars4 weeks agoDurable and Comfy
Durable and comfortable on the waistline. Recommend.
Was this helpful?WFWet For Her4 weeks agoThank you for this wonderful review of our StartHer, Jade! 💜 We're so thrilled to hear that the durability and comfort on the waistline are hitting the mark perfectly for you! That's exactly what we designed our StartHer to deliver - comfort you can count on! We love your recommendation and thank you for those amazing 5 stars! ✨