4.8

Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars

34 Reviews

StartHer™ Adjustable Strap-On Harness

$29.95

Start strong with style and function.

We named this one StartHer for a reason. Not only is it beginner-friendly, but it’s designed to get you and your partner revved up for endless naughty fun. StartHer is an adjustable O-ring harness that combines a tailored, secure fit with a sleek, classic design. Its simple yet stunning look molds perfectly to your curves while delivering incredible functionality—ideal for exploring (or perfecting) strap-on play with confidence and ease.

Size Inclusive

Flexible O-Ring

Beginner Friendly

Machine Washable

Product variants

Materials:

Made of polyester

4-Way adjustable straps fits US dress sizes 4–22 up to 60" (152cm) hips

Why Choose StartHer?

Step into the world of strap-on play with StartHer, an adjustable O-ring harness that’s as sexy as it is functional. Perfect for both curious first-timers and confident playtime pros, StartHer combines style, comfort, and versatility in one sleek package.

The elegant black straps frame your body in all the right ways, creating a flattering, curve-hugging fit that looks as good as it feels. Adjustable waist and leg straps ensure a secure, stay-put fit so you can focus on the passion, not the adjustments. StartHer’s soft chloroprene cushioning adds an extra layer of comfort, letting you stay in the moment no matter how heated things get.

Unlike Wet For Her’s Jock, Brief, or Boxer harnesses, StartHer is not a feel-through harness. Its closed design doesn’t allow for Pleasure Base to provide clitoral stimulation for the wearer. Instead, StartHer offers a smooth, supportive surface that’s ideal for strap-on play without distractions.

Pair it with flat-base dildos like Wet For Her’s Out, Rainbow, and Sunset strap-ons. The 1.5" stretchy O-ring securely holds your toy in place, making it easy to slide in and get straight to the fun.

*Note: NOT compatible with double dildos, stimulating-base dildos, or BumpHer dildo base cover.

Pair It With:

Out dildo - A classic suction-base dildo and StartHer’s perfect match.
Rainbow dildo - A colorful ode to our community that adds some extra pizazz
Sunset dildo - A beautiful ombre dildo that makes a bold statement

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Made by LGBTQ+ Women

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4.8

Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars

Based on 34 reviews

Total 5 star reviews: 28 Total 4 star reviews: 6 Total 3 star reviews: 0 Total 2 star reviews: 0 Total 1 star reviews: 0

100%would recommend this product

Reviews Summary

Customers say this harness is comfortable and highly adjustable, fitting a wide range of body types. Many appreciate how it stays securely in place during use without requiring frequent readjustment. Users find it particularly suitable for beginners, with easy setup and clear instructions. The soft fabric feels comfortable against skin, and the straps don't cause uncomfortable rubbing. Several note the harness accommodates significant size differences between partners. Some mention the rings can be flexible, occasionally causing slippage, while others wish for tighter sizing options. Overall, customers praise its quality, comfort, and adjustability.

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Rory W.
Verified Buyer
I recommend this product
What is your gender? Transmasc
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
9 hours ago
Amazing!
Worked really great, took me a second to figure out which ring size to use but was overall well liked by my partner and I.
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Wet For Her
22 seconds ago
Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars, Rory! 💜
The ring sizing can definitely take a moment to figure out at first, but it sounds like you found the perfect fit. It means the world to us that you and your partner loved it! ✨
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Kennya G.
Verified Buyer
I recommend this product
What is your gender? Female
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
3 weeks ago
Love ittt!!!!
Amazing product! Will definitely shop here again
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Wet For Her
4 days ago
Thank you so much for the 5 stars! ⭐
We're thrilled to hear you love the StartHer harness and that you think it's amazing! It means so much to us that you'll be shopping with us again 💜 Your feedback really made our day! ✨
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Kayla K.
Verified Buyer
I recommend this product
What is your gender? Female
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
1 month ago
Starter Harness
Great starter harness. I prefer a boxer harness myself but still thought this was a good start.
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Wet For Her
1 month ago
Thank you so much for the fantastic 5-star review, Kayla! We're so happy to hear that the StartHer worked well as a great starter harness for you. We totally understand that everyone has their preferences - boxer harnesses definitely have their own appeal! It's wonderful that you found this to be a good starting point in your journey. We really appreciate you taking the time to share your feedback 💜
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Alex H.
Verified Buyer
I recommend this product
What is your gender? Male
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
2 months ago
Great harness
It's a wonderful harness, the size is xs- 5x. If you're on the smaller side I recommend tucking the excess straps. It fits anything with a wide base and my fiance loves it
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Wet For Her
2 months ago
Thank you so much for your amazing 5 star review on our StartHer Harness, Alex! 💜 We love that you're highlighting the incredible size range (XS-5X) and that practical tip about tucking excess straps for smaller sizes is so helpful for our community! ✨ Knowing that it fits anything with a wide base and that your fiancé is loving it honestly has us screaming! Thank you for being part of our community! 🫶
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Maya R.
Verified Buyer
I recommend this product
What is your gender? Female
Type of use? Couple Use
Rated 5 out of 5 stars
2 months ago
Good quality Harness
Really good Quality Harness, doesnt move much and stays in place mostly
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Wet For Her
2 months ago
Thank you so much for your 5 star review on our StartHer Harness, Maya! 💜 So glad that the stability was such a huge priority in our design! ✨ Thank you for sharing your experience and for being part of our community! 🫶