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StartHer™ Adjustable Harness

$29.95

Start strong with style and function.

We named this one StartHer for a reason. Not only is it beginner-friendly, but it’s designed to get you and your partner revved up for endless naughty fun. StartHer is an adjustable O-ring harness that combines a tailored, secure fit with a sleek, classic design. Its simple yet stunning look molds perfectly to your curves while delivering incredible functionality—ideal for exploring (or perfecting) strap-on play with confidence and ease.

Size: XS-5X
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  • Adjustable Fit: 4-way straps fit US dress sizes 4–22 (hips up to 60")
  • 1.5" O-ring: Stretchy ring is compatible with flat-base dildos like Wet For Her’s Out, Rainbow, and Sunset 
  • Classic Look: Sleek design with a body-hugging fit.
  • Low Maintenance: Machine washable for easy care.

Materials:

Made of polyester

4-Way adjustable straps fits US dress sizes 4–22 up to 60" (152cm) hips

Why Choose StartHer? 

Step into the world of strap-on play with StartHer, an adjustable O-ring harness that’s as sexy as it is functional. Perfect for both curious first-timers and confident playtime pros, StartHer combines style, comfort, and versatility in one sleek package. 

The elegant black straps frame your body in all the right ways, creating a flattering, curve-hugging fit that looks as good as it feels. Adjustable waist and leg straps ensure a secure, stay-put fit so you can focus on the passion, not the adjustments. StartHer’s soft chloroprene cushioning adds an extra layer of comfort, letting you stay in the moment no matter how heated things get.

Unlike Wet For Her’s Jock, Brief, or Boxer harnesses, StartHer is not a feel-through harness. Its closed design doesn’t allow for Pleasure Base to provide clitoral stimulation for the wearer. Instead, StartHer offers a smooth, supportive surface that’s ideal for strap-on play without distractions.

Pair it with flat-base dildos like Wet For Her’s Out, Rainbow, and Sunset strap-ons. The 1.5" stretchy O-ring securely holds your toy in place, making it easy to slide in and get straight to the fun.

*Note: NOT compatible with double dildos, stimulating-base dildos, or BumpHer dildo base cover. 

Pair It With: 

  • Out dildo - A classic suction-base dildo and StartHer’s perfect match.
  • Rainbow dildo - A colorful ode to our community that adds some extra pizazz 
  • Sunset dildo - A beautiful ombre dildo that makes a bold statement 

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Made by LGBTQ+ Women

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