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4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
102 Reviews

RideHer Brief Underwear Strap-On Harness

$42.45 $49.95 15% off

Discreet under clothes, bold under the sheets.

Designed for confident comfort, the Brief O-Ring Harness combines ease of everyday underwear with the thrill of a harness. Sleek and strap-free, it’s discreet enough to wear under clothes, and bold enough for playing. The flexible O-ring keeps your packer securely in place, while the soft, breathable fabric ensures effortless wear all day long. The pride flag heart on the hip adds a playful touch to its minimalist design. Keep it as your little secret, or show it off the next time you strip down.

Machine Washable
Flexible O-Ring
Bullet Vibe Pocket
Size Inclusive
Size: XS-S
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Materials:

  • 95% Cotton
  • 5% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

Featuring a flexible 1.3 inch O-ring, the Brief O-Ring Harness securely holds dildos and double dildos 1 to 1.75 inches. It’s compatible with dildo stabilizers, making it usable with smaller toys and offering even more ways to play.

The Brief O-Ring Harness is equipped with inner pockets to customize your experience further. Keep them closed or open them up for using Wet For Her Pleasure Base or double dildos. When you crave something extra, the pocket under the O-ring lets you slip in a bullet vibrator and dial up the pleasure.

Whether you’re topping, packing, or just chilling, the irresistibly soft blend of cotton and spandex is a perfect balance of durability. The 1.75 inch elastic waistband makes for a snug, secure fit that moves with you, ensuring all-day comfort. And it’s machine washable, so it's ready to handle your wildest adventures in no time.  

Proudly designed for LGBTQ+ bodies, the embroidered rainbow flag heart celebrates our community. Flaunt it with pride or save it for your most intimate moments.

The Brief O-Ring Harness is available in sizes XS through 5X. If you’re between sizes, we recommend you choose the smaller size for a snug, no-slip fit. 

Pair It With:

Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS-S 27-32 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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How to Use RideHer Brief - Underwear Strap-On Harness

4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
Based on 102 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 74 Total 4 star reviews: 26 Total 3 star reviews: 1 Total 2 star reviews: 0 Total 1 star reviews: 1
98%would recommend this product
Reviews Summary
Customers say these underwear-style harnesses are exceptionally comfortable and easy to use compared to traditional strap harnesses. Many appreciate the soft, stretchy fabric that feels like regular underwear and provides secure attachment without complicated straps. Users frequently mention the sizing runs small, with several recommending sizing up for better fit. The ring placement receives mixed feedback - some find it perfect for stability and control, while others note it sits higher or lower than expected. Many reviews highlight the convenience of machine washing and discreet appearance. Common praise includes the secure hold that prevents slipping and the overall comfort during extended wear.
102 reviews
  • SB
    Sam B.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    13 hours ago
    Cute and Functional + Info

    Fits well, and I think they’re cute! I paired this with the strap-on with a grinding base and just wanted to throw in the info that there are two pieces of fabric that end up going between the base of the dildo and where it sits against the clit. Now, I don’t mind this, I actually prefer this honestly. The little fabric pieces seem easily movable, but because of that seems like when you’re, ya know, moving around a good bit (for some reason) they could fall back into place between the base and your skin if you don’t want them there. Like I said, I don’t mind this, I just thought it was good info to include bc I didn’t really know that before buying. Otherwise, they fit well! Their measurements are accurate which is appreciated. The band is a little tight but nothing bad, no horrific squeezing, you can just tell it’s supposed to fit tightly so it’s not slipping down. So, not a flaw, just a design feature, still breathable still comfy! Shipped quickly, weren’t in a big brightly colored box that said STRAP ON UNDERWEAR FROM A SEX SHOP or anything crazy.

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    Wet For Her
    4 minutes ago

    Thank you so much for your amazing 5 star review on our RideHer Brief, Sam! 💜 We're so glad to hear that you find them both cute and functional! ✨ Your detailed feedback about the fabric pieces and how they work with grinding bases is something that we're proud of. That kind of specific info really helps other customers know what to expect! Love that you appreciate the accurate measurements and that the snug fit works well for keeping everything secure without being uncomfortable! And we're always happy to hear our discreet shipping hit the mark! 😉 Thank you for taking the time to share such thoughtful details and for being part of our community! 🫶

  • SP
    sarah p.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    Simple

    User friendly

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    Wet For Her
    2 weeks ago

    Thank you so much for your wonderful 5 star review on our Brief Harness, Sarah! 💜That ease of use is exactly what we designed the Brief Harness to deliver! ✨ Your positive feedback truly means the world to us and helps other customers feel confident in their choice! Thank you for being part of our community! 🫶

  • Z
    z
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    4 weeks ago
    Comfy!

    It's very comfy and a nice material! Unfortunately, it does move around a bit while you're using it since it's made of fabric, but it's not too much of a problem

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    Wet For Her
    4 weeks ago

    Thanks so much for the 4-star review, Z! We totally understand your feedback about the movement during use - that's really helpful for us to know how the fabric performs in real-world situations. Your honest experience helps us continue improving our designs 💜

  • MD
    Mélissa D. G.
    Verified Buyer
    I do not recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 1 out of 5 stars
    1 month ago
    Bad quality

    Très déçue de la qualité par rapport a un autre acheter il y a des années !

  • KS
    Kaitlyn S.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    1 month ago
    Good

    Fits well because I followed the size guide. Was easy to attach the dildo and comfortable to wear during!

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    Wet For Her
    1 month ago

    Thank you so much for the great 4 star review on our Brief Harness, Kaitlyn! 💜 We're so happy to hear it fits well and that our size guide helped you get the perfect fi, that comfort and easy attachment is exactly what we designed it for! Your satisfaction means everything to us! ✨ Thank you for your support!