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4.6
Rated 4.6 out of 5 stars
114 Reviews

RideHer™ Brief Underwear Strap-On Harness

$42.45 $49.95 15% off

Discreet under clothes, bold under the sheets.

Designed for confident comfort, the Brief O-Ring Harness combines ease of everyday underwear with the thrill of a harness. Sleek and strap-free, it’s discreet enough to wear under clothes, and bold enough for playing. The flexible O-ring keeps your packer securely in place, while the soft, breathable fabric ensures effortless wear all day long. The pride flag heart on the hip adds a playful touch to its minimalist design. Keep it as your little secret, or show it off the next time you strip down.

Machine Washable
Flexible O-Ring
Bullet Vibe Pocket
Size Inclusive
Size: XS-S
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Materials:

  • 95% Cotton
  • 5% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

Featuring a flexible 1.3 inch O-ring, the Brief O-Ring Harness securely holds dildos and double dildos 1 to 1.75 inches. It’s compatible with dildo stabilizers, making it usable with smaller toys and offering even more ways to play.

The Brief O-Ring Harness is equipped with inner pockets to customize your experience further. Keep them closed or open them up for using Wet For Her Pleasure Base or double dildos. When you crave something extra, the pocket under the O-ring lets you slip in a bullet vibrator and dial up the pleasure.

Whether you’re topping, packing, or just chilling, the irresistibly soft blend of cotton and spandex is a perfect balance of durability. The 1.75 inch elastic waistband makes for a snug, secure fit that moves with you, ensuring all-day comfort. And it’s machine washable, so it's ready to handle your wildest adventures in no time.  

Proudly designed for LGBTQ+ bodies, the embroidered rainbow flag heart celebrates our community. Flaunt it with pride or save it for your most intimate moments.

The Brief O-Ring Harness is available in sizes XS through 5X. If you’re between sizes, we recommend you choose the smaller size for a snug, no-slip fit. 

Pair It With:

Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$50.95 $59.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Strap-On Dildo View 1

Rainbow Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Sex On The Beach Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Sex On The Beach Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Sunset - Strap-On Dildo View 1

Sunset Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF

Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS-S 27-32 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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Made by LGBTQ+ Women

Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$50.95 $59.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Strap-On Dildo View 1

Rainbow Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Sex On The Beach Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Sex On The Beach Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Sunset - Strap-On Dildo View 1

Sunset Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
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Reinforced O-ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring is built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Stretchy cotton blend

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps.

Dual bullet pockets

The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge.

How to Use RideHer™ Brief - Underwear Strap-On Harness

4.6
Rated 4.6 out of 5 stars
Based on 114 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 80 Total 4 star reviews: 30 Total 3 star reviews: 1 Total 2 star reviews: 2 Total 1 star reviews: 1
96%would recommend this product
Reviews Summary
Customers say these underwear-style harnesses are exceptionally comfortable and easy to use compared to traditional strap harnesses. Many appreciate the soft, stretchy fabric that feels like regular underwear and provides secure attachment without complicated straps. Users frequently mention the sizing runs small, with several recommending sizing up for better fit. The ring placement receives mixed feedback - some find it perfect for stability and control, while others note it sits higher or lower than expected. Many reviews highlight the convenience of machine washing and discreet appearance. Common praise includes the secure hold that prevents slipping and the overall comfort during extended wear.
114 reviews
  • AD
    Alison D.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    2 days ago
    Love them

    My wife likes to wear the hands free underwear

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    Wet For Her
    22 seconds ago

    Alison, we love that she's loving the hands-free freedom! 💜 The RideHer Brief is all about that comfort and convenience - sounds like it's doing exactly what it's supposed to do 🔥 Thanks for sharing the love and those 4 stars! ✨

  • CH
    Carola H.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    6 days ago
    Not the ideal fit

    For my body it’s not a perfect fit. I guess I should not have taken the smaller one as recommended (measurements were between two sizes). However, it fits the Rainbow Strap-On perfectely and my partner loves it, when we‘re playing with it.

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    Wet For Her
    5 days ago

    Thank you so much for your review! 💜 We’re glad to hear it pairs perfectly with the Rainbow Strap-On and that your partner is enjoying it. We really appreciate you sharing your experience with us, your feedback means a lot! ✨

  • AA
    Alex A.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Great!!

    Me and my partner love the flexibility/stability of the underwear harness! My partner loved the ride her brief and I love the boxer, it’s the best of both worlds!

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for the 5 stars! 💜
    We love hearing this, the best of both worlds is exactly what we were going for. So happy you both found styles that work perfectly for you!

  • HK
    Hayley K.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    Good easier than a harness

    The xl is like a size 16/18 not as big as I thought, its not stretchy material

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for the 5 stars, Hayley! 💜
    We're really glad to hear you found it easier than a traditional harness, and we appreciate you sharing those specific sizing details about the XL fitting like a 16/18 and the material not being stretchy. That kind of feedback is genuinely helpful for us and other customers when they're choosing their size. Thanks for giving it a try and taking the time to review!

  • KB
    Kanwal B.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    Comfortable + Snug

    But not tight!

    Soft material and easy to care for.

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    Wet For Her
    2 weeks ago

    Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars, Kanwal! 💜
    We're absolutely thrilled to hear that the RideHer Brief is comfortable and snug without being too tight! Your feedback about the soft material and how easy it is to care for really means the world to us. That perfect balance of comfort and fit is exactly what we designed it for! ✨