How do I clean my sex toy?

Maintaining the cleanliness of your sex toy will ensure the lifespan and shelf life of your toy. Cleaning your sex toy is easy! We recommended investing in a natural foam sex toy cleaner to avoid those scary chemicals and phthalate residue. There are tons on the market, but generally, you’re going to want to try to pay attention to the type of material your sex toys is as this will determine the means and measures for cleaning. Glass, metal, and silicone sex toys are usually nonporous and can be cleaned just fine with soap and water or a toy cleaner. Squirt a few pumps onto your toy, rinse with warm water if your dildo is waterproof, or wipe down with some baby wipes or a clean damp cloth. Never submerge your sex toy fully in water if it’s not waterproof! Remember to clean your sex toy after every use to prevent the buildup of bacteria and to also prevent infections.

How do I choose the right sex toy for me?

Choosing the right sex toys for your couple all depends on what you are seeking out for your pleasure! Will you be using this sex toy for solo masturbation? With a partner? As a strap on? It’s also important to consider the type of stimulation you are looking to experience. Are you focusing on G-spot stimulation? Anal stimulation? Maybe you're choosing to stimulate the P-spot around your prostate or even add some clitoral stimulation into the mix as well. Once you decide the type of stimulation and experience you are seeking with your sex toy, you can start to browse Wet for Her’s best lesbians sex toy selections! Wet for Her carries strapless, squirting, G-spot, anal, metal, and glass dildos as well as a variety of strap-on dildos for you to choose from!

What materials are sex toys and dildos made out of?

From silicone, vinyl, glass, metal, crystal, latex, and even jelly rubber, sex toys an dildos come in a variety of materials, all of which mostly determine the type of sexual play you’ll be engaging in. For example, glass dildos are great for anal play and G-spot stimulation thanks to their smooth texture and easiness to clean.

Are there any materials which are better than others?

It’s important to note that dildos are porous or nonporous depending on the type of material they are made from. Porous materials, such as latex, jelly rubber, or vinyl dildos carry microscopic holes which penetrate the material. They can carry residue and bacteria even after being cleaned, which is a huge no-no! Some materials also contain phthalates, or a group of chemicals added to toys to increase flexibility. Don’t let them fool you! Just a warning, phthalates are inherently toxins to the body! Add a dildo that is also porous and you’re asking for a visit to the doctor. On the flip side, non-porous materials, such as glass, metal, or silicone, do not carry these microscopic holes and are safe for use even after cleaning. They do not pose a risk to body health if cleaned regularly after every use. This is why Wet for Her offers dildos made from these quality materials, such as 100% medical grade silicone to ensure all products are phthalate-free while providing a silky texture that is easy to clean and maintain.

What size should I get? How do I choose the perfect sex toys size?

Using a sex toy can take some getting used to, especially if you don’t have much experience in penetration. We suggest beginning with something on the smaller side to make insertion a little less strenuous. Dildos can range in sizes as little as 4 inches and as large as 18 inches. It’s important to pay attention to the measurements of the product before you buy your new sex toy. If you’re still not sure what you’ll be working with, use a ruler or a sizing guide to test things out. We recommend starting off with about 5 inches to get a feel for it and move on from there!

Whether you’re focusing on some solo play or incorporating a partner into the fun, there are so many benefits to using a sex toy! They are incredibly versatile and they can be an awesome addition to foreplay and sex. Sex toys and dildos help to get you aroused before penetration. Having sex with a sex toy can be incredibly pleasurable, especially if you prefer internal stimulation. Did I mention they are versatile? Many strap-on sex toys come with a suction-cup base which makes them ideal for hands-free play and some can be used with a strap-on harness if you prefer to get hot with your partner. No matter what you’re using them for, sex toy and dildos can provide a whirlwind of fun for the first-timer.

How do I use a sex toy?

So you’ve invested in yourself and bought your very first sex toy through Wet for Her. Now what? Well, the answer is pretty straightforward, but we understand that trying out a sex toy for the first time can be quite intimidating. No worries! We are here to help! It is wise to take things slow and easy at first. This means starting with a dildo size that won’t be too intense. We want a wow not an ow, right? We recommend starting with a small size and building your way up as your experience with sex toy play grows. How to insert a sex toy: Step 1: Lube up! You want to make sure you're ready to receive your new sex toy by being sexually aroused. You can start by lubing up your sex toys by putting lube on the tip of the shaft and working your way down with your hands. Step 2: Take your time and explore Start slowly and allow yourself some time to get used to the sex toy around your genitals. If you are planning on using it in your vagina or for G-spot stimulation, try some external stimulation before penetration by rubbing the dildo gently along your labia and against your clitoris. This will “warm you up” by increasing sexual arousal and blood flow to your genitals. As for anal penetration, also begin with slow stimulation around the anus, butt cheeks, and perineum. This will help to prepare the anus for penetration. Don’t forget your lube! Some pro tips for safety: make sure your sex toys has a tapered end, you’ve used the bathroom beforehand (trust me on this one), and avoid using your sex toy on any other area once it has been inserted into the anus. And for the love of all that is pleasurable, don’t forget to clean your dildo afterwards! Step 3: Insert your dildo and start exploring some more! Insert your dildo into your vagina or anus one inch at a time by spreading your labia or your buttcheeks gently. If your partner is around, feel free to ask them for assistance! Remain curious and start exploring to see what feels good. Take things slow and build it up gradually by inserting more of the dildo as you progress. Remember this is your time to shine so don’t be afraid! To get some awesome results with your new dildo, try thrusting it in an angle against the front wall of the vagina once you’ve gotten the rhythm down to stimulate your G-spot. Or alternatively, for those of us with prostates, you can try to stimulate the front wall of the anus in the same manner. If anytime throughout your playtime you feel yourself going dry, don’t hesitate to add more lube!

Do I need to use lube with my sex toy?

We definitely recommend using lubricant the first go around (and hey, even each time if you’re about that) to enhance pleasure, sensation, and ease of the toy. Let’s just say it -- lube and sex toys are like peanut butter and jelly. You can never have “too much” lube, especially when trying out a new dildo.

Do I need to consider a sex toy shape or size?

This depends on the type of sexual play you want to engage in. Ultimately, you’re going to want to find the ideal size for yourself. Sex toys range from all sorts of sizes ranging from 4 inches to 18 inches! If you need assistance choosing the right size for yourself or a partner, you can refer to our beginner guide here: https://www.wetforher.com/newbies As for shape, sex toys can come curved, straight, and they can even be doubled! We recommend doing research on the types of sex toys you are interested in and go from there with some experimentation. It really is all about experience and seeing what suits your needs best!

Why choose a multi-functioning dildo? (Vibrating, suction, etc.)

To increase variety, versatility, and to help boost fun into your sexual life! Multi-functioning dildos can be used to increase and maintain pleasure in a lot of different ways that your normal dildo can’t. Suction dildos can be attached to surfaces for riding and vibrating dildos help increase sexual arousal by adding a little spice to your sexual play!

What makes a good dildo?

If you have not tried a dildo before, then you might not be sure where to even begin in choosing one for yourself or you and your partner. Fortunately, here at Wetforher.com, we are experts in sex toys for the LGBTQ community and can tell you exactly what you need to look for. When it comes to dildos, there are several factors that you need to consider, including size, shape, texture, and capabilities. You also need to ensure that the lesbian dildo you choose is safe for use and easy to keep clean. In terms of size, shape, and texture, this is ultimately down to personal preference. But if you are new to queer and lesbian dildos, it can be a good idea to start small and work your way up. For those that love clitoral stimulation, a vibrating dildo is a great choice, offering unrivaled waves of pleasure for both you and your partner. Material-wise, medical-grade silicone dildos are the most sanitary, although glass and metal dildos are also body-safe and can offer a unique sexual experience. Avoid dildos that are made of PVC, jelly, or rubber, as these can be toxic and are also hard to clean.

Are the dildos really designed for women?

Yes, they are! Here at Wetforher.com, our dildos are designed for women couples What does this mean for your sexual experiences? In a nutshell, you are guaranteed unadulterated pleasure each and every time! As advocates for the entire LGBTQ community, our “sexperts” know what really makes you tick, and all our sex toys are designed with this in mind. Although you could choose to purchase a dildo from a run-of-the-mill sex store, we promise you won’t get the same thrills that you would get if you shop with us. We have invested time, money, and a lot of effort (well, someone’s got to try before you buy), and we promise that you will not be disappointed in what we have to offer! Need a little help choosing the right dildo for your sex life? We are more than happy to answer any questions you may have, make recommendations based on your preferences, or even explain in more detail how to enjoy our dildos. The beauty of buying a lesbian dildo from a retailer that designs and makes dildos specifically for lesbians is that you know you are going to get the best sexual experience. All you have to do now is choose which dildo you are going to try first!

What kind of dildos do you sell?

We understand that everyone has different needs and desires when it comes to their sex life, which is why we sell an extensive range of queer and lesbian dildos. Whether you are trying a lesbian dildo for the first time or are looking for the latest lesbian dildos on the market, you are guaranteed to find what you are looking for when you shop with us. Browse our double-ended dildos that are perfect for pleasuring you and your partner simultaneously. Discover our strap-on dildos that allow you to penetrate your partner in the most pleasurable way and realistic dildos that mimic the appearance of a penis and even squirt! We have queer and lesbian dildos in a variety of different sizes, shapes, textures, and colors, all made with the same care, attention to detail, and high-quality materials. Love the feeling of vibrations against your skin? Explore our amazing selection of vibrating lesbian dildos that promise to deliver wave upon wave of pleasure throughout your body. Don’t miss our limited rainbow pride dildos that are as pleasurable as they are pretty! Featuring a silicon strap-on cup, you can ride away to your heart’s content!

Do I need to buy any accessories for a dildo?

While you do not have to buy any accessories to go with your dildo, that doesn’t mean that you can’t. Dedicated to delivering as much pleasure to our customers as possible, we offer a wide range of lesbian sex toys and accessories that promise to take your sex life to the next level. Explore our extensive selection of high-quality harnesses that are compatible with our dildos, and enjoy hands-free vaginal penetration and anal penetration with ease. With harness underwear styles to suit everyone and designed with your comfort in mind, you can even wear them throughout the day if you want to! This works with our double dildos too. Love a bit of anal play? Take a closer look at the butt plugs we have on offer, which can be enjoyed on their own or simultaneously with one of our lesbian dildos. Plus, don’t forget to check out our range of lubricants that guarantee to make each sexual experience with any of our dildos even more pleasurable. All our lubricants are body-safe and suitable for sensitive skin. We even have vegan-friendly lubricants for our customers who do not use animal products so check out our collection today.

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