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4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
518 Reviews

RideHer™ Boxer Underwear Strap-On Harness

$46.75 $54.95 15% off

Boxer O-Ring Harness: Play Boldly and Move Freely—No Straps Required

Designed for those who take charge in the bedroom, this underwear-style harness is destined to become your go-to for confident, no-nonsense play. With a strategically placed O-ring, these... Show More +

Size: XS-S
Color: Grey
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Materials:

  • Fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex
  • Elastic Band: 55% Nylon, 45% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

The Boxer O-Ring Harness by Wet For Her combines bold design with everyday ease, offering endless ways to pack, play, and turn up the heat. Front and center is the sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers hug your body like they were tailor-made. Whether you’re gearing up for action or just wearing them out and about, the supportive 1.75” waistband keeps you ready no matter where the day (or night) takes you. 

But we didn’t stop there. The inner flaps behind the O-ring unlock even more possibilities. Keep them closed to focus all your attention on your partner, or open them up to experience the pulse-pounding sensations of a Pleasure Base dildo or a double-ended dildo.

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators. Because who says you can’t get off while driving your partner wild?

Available in sizes XS to 5X, these boxers are made to fit every body. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller size for a secure, no-slip fit. Easy to clean and machine washable, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is built to keep up with all your adventures. 

Pair It With:

Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

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WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$50.95 $59.95 15% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Strap-On Dildo View 1

Rainbow Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF

Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS-S 27-32 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$50.95 $59.95 15% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Strap-On Dildo View 1

Rainbow Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
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O-Ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place.

Comfort-first

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers with a supportive 1.75” waistband, hug your body like they were tailor-made.

Bullet vibe pockets

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators.

How to Use RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness

4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
Based on 518 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 424 Total 4 star reviews: 74 Total 3 star reviews: 10 Total 2 star reviews: 3 Total 1 star reviews: 7
96%would recommend these products
Reviews Summary
Customers say these boxer harnesses are extremely comfortable and much easier to use than traditional strap harnesses. Many appreciate the soft, stretchy material and how secure the design keeps toys in place. Common feedback includes that they run small, with most recommending sizing up one or two sizes for proper fit. Users find them well-made and durable, though some mention the ring opening can be tight initially. Many reviews mention the comfort allows for extended wear and better control during use. Some note the fabric stretches during activity, occasionally affecting stability. Several customers praise the minimalist design and prefer it over traditional harness straps.
518 reviews
  • B
    Beth
    Verified Buyer
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Yesterday
    Amazing

    First time purchasing one of Wet For Her's products. Won't be the last! Definitely recommend. Fit well, worked amazing.

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    Wet For Her
    Yesterday

    Amazing, we love to hear it! 💜
    There’s nothing better than a first purchase that absolutely delivers 😉
    We’re so glad it fit well and worked its magic for you.
    Welcome to the Wet For Her family, sounds like this is just the beginning 🔥 Thanks so much for the recommendation!

  • MW
    Mo W.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Non-Binary
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    4 days ago
    Love It

    It works great so far! The stretch ensures it’s not too loose or too tight and the material is comfortable. It’s pricey but the quality is good.

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    Wet For Her
    3 days ago

    Thank you so much for sharing! 💜
    We’re really glad to hear the fit and comfort are working well for you and that the quality feels worth it. We truly appreciate your thoughtful feedback!

  • RC
    Rebecca C.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Look ma! No hands!

    I LOVE these. I have traditional strap ons and strapless strap ons that are inserted, but neither feel secure. This fit my current strapless ones perfectly since the opening goes all the way thru the panties. They held it super tight and I was free to move any way I… or she pleased ;) Perfect buy!

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    We love hearing this 🙌 No hands, no worries, just confidence and freedom to move exactly how you want 😉 We’re so glad the fit felt secure and let you focus on the fun. Thanks for the amazing review, sounds like a perfect match!

  • TS
    Tess S.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Non-Binary
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Very good

    Would recommend

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars, Tess! 💜
    We're absolutely thrilled to hear that the RideHer Boxer is very good and that you'd recommend it to others! Your positive feedback about our underwear strap-on harness really means the world to us and totally made our day! ✨

  • KD
    Kenneth D.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Male
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Fits great

    As it looks and fits comfortably.

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars! 💜
    We're so glad to hear that the RideHer Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness fits you so comfortably and looks just as great as expected! Your positive feedback about the fit and comfort really means the world to us and totally made our day! ✨