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4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
502 Reviews

RideHer Boxer Underwear Strap-On Harness

$46.75 $54.95 15% off

Boxer O-Ring Harness: Play Boldly and Move Freely—No Straps Required

Designed for those who take charge in the bedroom, this underwear-style harness is destined to become your go-to for confident, no-nonsense play. With a strategically placed O-ring, these... Show More +

Size: XS-S
Color: Grey
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Materials:

  • Fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex
  • Elastic Band: 55% Nylon, 45% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

The Boxer O-Ring Harness by Wet For Her combines bold design with everyday ease, offering endless ways to pack, play, and turn up the heat. Front and center is the sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers hug your body like they were tailor-made. Whether you’re gearing up for action or just wearing them out and about, the supportive 1.75” waistband keeps you ready no matter where the day (or night) takes you. 

But we didn’t stop there. The inner flaps behind the O-ring unlock even more possibilities. Keep them closed to focus all your attention on your partner, or open them up to experience the pulse-pounding sensations of a Pleasure Base dildo or a double-ended dildo.

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators. Because who says you can’t get off while driving your partner wild?

Available in sizes XS to 5X, these boxers are made to fit every body. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller size for a secure, no-slip fit. Easy to clean and machine washable, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is built to keep up with all your adventures. 

Pair It With:

Boxer/Brief harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS-S 27-32 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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Take charge in the bedroom

Reinforced O-ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring is built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Stretchy cotton blend

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps.

Dual bullet pockets

The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge.

How to Use RideHer Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness

4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
Based on 502 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 414 Total 4 star reviews: 72 Total 3 star reviews: 9 Total 2 star reviews: 2 Total 1 star reviews: 5
97%would recommend these products
Reviews Summary
Customers say these boxer harnesses are significantly more comfortable than traditional strap-on harnesses, providing better intimacy and control. Many appreciate the easy setup and secure fit that holds accessories firmly in place. Users consistently mention the soft, high-quality material and comfortable all-day wear. However, frequent feedback addresses sizing concerns, with many noting the harnesses run small and recommending sizing up. Some mention the O-ring size is limited and difficult to change. While most praise the snug fit for functionality, a few find the fabric stretches during use, requiring more hip movement for control. Overall, customers prefer these over traditional harnesses for their comfort and ease of use.
502 reviews
  • PG
    Pola G.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 days ago
    pretty good

    it can be a struggle to put the dildo in but otherwise it's good, better control than with typical harnesses (at least according to my partner)

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    Yesterday

    Thank you for your review, Pola! We're so happy to hear your partner is enjoying the improved control with the RideHer Boxer compared to typical harnesses, that's exactly what we were hoping to achieve with this design! We appreciate your honest feedback about the insertion process as well - this kind of insight is really helpful for both our team and other customers who might be considering this harness.

    Thanks again for taking the time to share your experience and for the 5-star rating! 💜

  • JC
    jordan c.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer Boxer - Lingerie Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    2 days ago
    So comfy, not secure

    The fabric of these breeds is so comfortable. I kinda wish I could just have a pack of them as normal underwear! I don't really see the use of these with a dildo. It's not secure enough to get into it too heavily. That being said it worked well enough to be pleasurable. But would definitely opt for an actual strap if I'm trynna.....you know

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    2 days ago

    Thank you so much for your kind words and support! 💜 We’re so happy you love shopping with us and truly appreciate your recommendation, it means a lot to our team! ✨

  • BB
    Brittany B.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer Boxer - Lingerie Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Just right

    My girlfriend loves it!! Much easier to use and don’t have a lot of extra straps and pieces everywhere

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    5 days ago

    Thank you so much for the fantastic 5-star review, Brittany! We're so thrilled to hear that your girlfriend loves the RideHer Boxer and that the streamlined design makes everything so much easier to use. That's exactly what we were going for - all the functionality without the fuss of extra straps and pieces! It's wonderful to know it's working so perfectly for you both. We really appreciate you taking the time to share your feedback 💜

  • DG
    Dustin G.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer Boxer - Lingerie Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Male
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Best harness ever!

    My wife wanted a better harness as the one we had (traditional strap style) just wasnt cooperating during sessions. After getting this, she was finally able to perform anal on me for the first time. Looking forward to her wearing it again over the holiday.

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for the amazing 5-star review, Dustin! We're absolutely glad to hear that the RideHer Boxer was such a game-changer for you and your wife. It's wonderful that it provided the comfort and stability you were looking for after the traditional strap style wasn't working out. We're so glad it helped make your experience together successful and enjoyable. Hope you both have a fantastic holiday season! We really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience 💜

  • HM
    Hanelly M. s. d.
    Verified Buyer
    Reviewing
    RideHer Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Good product

    Stretchy and good material

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you so much for the fantastic 5-star review on our Boxer Harness, Hanelly! We're so glad to hear you're happy with the stretchy material and overall quality of the RideHer Boxer. It's great to know it's working well for you! We really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience 💜