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4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
12 Reviews

The Big Papi Feelskin™ XL Strap-On Dildo

$67.95 $79.95 15% off

Go XL Big, Get Bold, as Shame is Man-made.

Meet Big Papi—the XL, hyper-realistic dildo born from the vision of Papi Sinner and built to leave nothing (and we mean nothing) to the imagination. With lifelike... Show More +

Feelskin™ Silicone
Bendable
XL Size & Girth
Body-Safe
Size: XL
Color: Espresso
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Materials:

100% High Quality Silicone

Dimensions:

  • Total Length: 9.25 in / 23,5 cm
  • Insertable Length: 8.27 in / 21,0 cm
  • Diameter: 1.77 in / 4,5 cm

Return:

If you picked the wrong size, we offer a 50% discount on the same sex toy in a different size. Please contact our customer support for more information.

Why Choose Big Papi?

Big Papi is all about size, realism, and serious satisfaction. Crafted in lifelike skin tones with detailed veins and a sculpted head, this XL dildo delivers a full-bodied experience that looks and feels incredibly real. Perfect for strap-on play, it fits snugly into your favorite Wet For Her harness, staying secure and steady no matter how wild things get.

Its firm yet flexible shaft is shaped for maximum G-spot or P-spot stimulation, while the strong suction base adds stability and opens the door to hands-free fun. Flying solo? Stick it to any smooth surface—shower walls, chairs, bathroom tiles—and let Big Papi take you for a ride, wherever the mood strikes.

The Big Papi was inspired by "The Sinners" and made in collaboration with Papi Sinner, for some BDE!

Made from 100% body-safe, medical-grade silicone, Big Papi is free from phthalates, latex, and other unwanted extras. Just pure, unapologetic pleasure—no compromises.

Pair It With

Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

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RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness View 1

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Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

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RideHer™ Brief - Underwear Strap-On Harness View 1

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$49.95

How to Measure

  • Total Length- The size from tip to base. This could include parts of the dildo intended for holding, suction cups or grinding base.
  • Insertable Length- The 'insertable length' explains how much of dildo can potentially be put inside you.
  • Diameter- The size of the shaft (or widest part) measured straight across.
Total length Insertable length Diameter Fingers
Small 5.8” - 14.7 cm 5.0”- 12.7 cm 1.2”- 3.0 cm 2
Medium 6.7” - 17 cm 6.0”- 15.2 cm 1.38”- 3.5 cm 3
Large 7.5”- 19 cm 6.0”- 15.2 cm 1.6”- 4.1 cm 4

Size may vary from 1 to 3mm as they are handpoured

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Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
StrapHer™ - Adjustable Jock style Strap-on Harness View 1

StrapHer™ Adjustable Jock style ...

$91.95 $114.95 20% OFF
RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness View 1

RideHer™ Boxer Underwear Strap-On Har...

$46.75 $54.95 15% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$9.05 $12.95 30% OFF
RideHer™ Brief - Underwear Strap-On Harness View 1

RideHer™ Brief Underwear Strap-On Har...

$42.45 $49.95 15% OFF
WowHer® - Wearable Ring and Clit Vibrator View 1

WowHer® Wearable Ring and Clit...

$49.95

Serious satisfaction

XL ambition

This extra large hyper-realistic dildo was inspired by "The Sinners" and made in collaboration with Papi Sinner.

Feelskin™ Double Density silicone

Made from 100% body-safe, medical-grade Feelskin™ Double Density silicone, Big Papi is free from phthalates, latex, and other unwanted extras.

Suction base

Its firm yet flexible shaft is shaped for maximum G-spot or P-spot stimulation, while the strong suction base adds stability for hands-free fun.

4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
Based on 12 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 11 Total 4 star reviews: 1 Total 3 star reviews: 0 Total 2 star reviews: 0 Total 1 star reviews: 0
100%would recommend this product
12 reviews
  • HB
    Hannah B.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    19 hours ago
    I'm an anti-capitalist who broke my "No-Buy" challenge for this. WORTH IT

    If you make one of these that vibrates, I think the world would heal itself.

    The Big Papi will be shelved in museums with the book 'Pleasure Activism' as the turning point in return to the indigenous, interdependent, and matriarchal ways.

    No consumption is ethical so... you might as well let it feel good.

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    Wet For Her
    21 seconds ago

    Hannah, this review has us absolutely living! 🔥 Breaking a "No-Buy" challenge for The Big Papi is the ultimate compliment - and honestly, if it's going to be shelved in museums alongside 'Pleasure Activism' as a turning point in human history, we're pretty honored to be part of that legacy! 😏 Your vision of a vibrating version healing the world has us seriously considering our next product development meeting... 👀 Thanks for choosing pleasure and for those perfect 5 stars! Sometimes the most revolutionary act is just feeling good! 💜✨

  • RB
    René B.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Non-Binary
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 month ago
    10/10

    All I have to say is yes. 10/10 would recommend.

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 month ago

    Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars, René! 💜
    We're absolutely thrilled to hear that The Big Papi Feelskin XL earned such a perfect 10/10 rating from you! Your enthusiastic "yes" and recommendation really means the world to us and totally made our day! ✨

  • A
    ava
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Personal Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 month ago
    wowwww perfect love

    i've been looking for the perfect dildo and i've found it. perfect length. not too too wide but wide enough for sure. really love that i'm able to bend it to the right curve. its sturdy and heavy but the tip is very soft which is so nice. the texture isn't like any of my other toys but i love it. 10/10 no notes!

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 month ago

    Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars! 💜
    We're absolutely thrilled to hear that you've found your perfect dildo with The Big Papi Feelskin™ XL! Your feedback about the perfect length, the bendable curve, and that lovely soft tip really means the world to us. We love that you're enjoying the unique texture and how sturdy yet comfortable it feels! That 10/10 with no notes totally made our day! ✨

  • AT
    Adrian T.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 month ago
    🌈🌈🌈

    She loves it.

    WF Profile picture for Wet For Her
    Wet For Her
    1 month ago

    Thank you so much for this amazing review and the 5 stars, Adrian! 💜
    Your enthusiasm really made our day! ✨

  • CH
    CYNTHIA H.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 months ago
    Couples Review

    It was everything, she said, it's perfect

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    Wet For Her
    2 months ago

    Thank you so much for this sweet review, Cynthia! 💜 We're absolutely glad to hear that The Big Papi was "everything" and that she said it's perfect! 😊 There's nothing better than knowing we've helped create those amazing moments for couples. Thanks for sharing the love and for choosing Wet For Her! ✨