TEAM'S FAVORITES

Wet For Her's team's favorites toys. Want to get an insight on what our team of employees and sex toys enthusiasts enjoy? Check out the Wet for Her Team’s favorite sex toys, consisting of the best dildos, harnesses, strap-ons, vibrators, and affirmative gear for lesbian, transgender, queer folks, and everyone else in the LGBTQIA+ community!

Our specially selected products are sure to bring lots of excitement (and perhaps even more!) to you or your partner! We’ve included the best lesbian, transgender, and queer-centered sex toys in the industry for your pleasure and needs, whether or not you are in a committed relationship, polyamorous, or single!

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  1. BumpHer Strap-on dildo Base Cover Bestseller
    BumpHer - Dildo Base Cushion
    $35.95 -10%
    $39.95 You save  $4
     
     
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  2. Best strap-ons for lesbians. Build Your Strap-on Kit : 1 Harness + 1  Strap-on 35% Off Bestseller
    Build Your Pack - Up to 35% Off : 1 Harness + 1 Strap-On + Accessories (optional)

    Starting at $79.90 Regular Price $94.90

     
     
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  3. STRAP ON DILDO LESBIAN SEX TOYS HARNESS COUPLE WOMEN LESBIAN PLEASURE PLAY FUN PRIDE RAINBOW LGBTQ Bestseller
    Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo - Grinding Base™ - 6 Inch
    $53.95 -10%
    $59.95 You save  $6
     
     
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  4. STRAP ON LESBIAN SEX TOYS VIBRATOR HARNESS STRAPON WOMEN PLEASURE STIMULATING G SPOT
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    BeanZe Pure Skin Like - Bendable Strap-On Dildo - Pleasure Base® - Medium Size
    $55.20 -15%
    $64.95 You save  $9.75
     
     
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  5. STRAP-ON DILDO BEGINNER PURPLE HARNESS WOMEN COUPLE PENETRATION
    Out Purple Strap-On Dildo 6 Inch
    $26.95
     
     
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  6. STRAP-ON FOR LESBIANS STRAPON HARNESS BEST LESBIAN SEX TOYS WOMEN COUPLE Bestseller
    Sunset Strap-on Dildo with Suction cup base
    $39.95 -20%
    $49.95 You save  $10
     
     
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  7. UNION DOUBLE DILDO RECHARGEABLE REMOTE CONTROL DOUBLE PLEASURE STRAPLESS DOUBLE HEADED Bestseller
    Union Vibe 2.0 Rechargeable Vibrating Double Dildo - Dual Motor - Purple
    $86.95 -25%
    $115.95 You save  $29
     
     
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  8. Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 10 Speeds - Multicolor Bestseller
    Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 10 Speeds - Multicolor
    $37.95 -5%
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  9. STRAP-ON DILOD VIBRATING RECHARGEABLE 10 SPEEDS HARNESS WOMEN Bestseller
    Fusion Vibe 2.0 - Grinding Base™ Vibrating Rechargeable Strap-on 6 Inch
    $71.95 -10%
    $79.95 You save  $8
     
     
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  10. STRAP-ON DILDO VIBRATING RECHARGEABLE PLEASURE BASE 10 SPEEDS REMOTE CONTROL HARNESS PLAY WOMEN PLEASURE Bestseller
    Fusion Vibe 2.0 - Grinding Base™ Vibrating Rechargeable Strap-on 6 Inch
    $71.95 -10%
    $79.95 You save  $8
     
     
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  11. REMOTE CONTROL VIBRATOR SSEX TOY VIBRATOR STRAP-ON DILDO DOUBLE HEADED DILDO Bestseller
    ClickHer - Remote Control for all 2.0 Wet For Her sextoys
    $9.95
     
     
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  12. STRAP ON VIBRATING DILDO REMOTE CONTROL BUNDLE HARNESS PLAY PLEASURE BASE Bestseller
    Bundle Fusion Vibe 2.0 + Remote Control - Vibrating Strap-on Dildo
    $80.90 -10%
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  13. DOUBLE DILDO VIBRATING REMOTE CONTROL DOUBLE HEADED FOR LESBIANS HARNESS Bestseller
    Bundle Union Vibe 2.0 Double Dildo + Remote Control - Vibrating and rechargeable
    $94.43 -25%
    $125.90 You save  $31.47
     
     
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  14. STRAP-ONS FRO LESBIANS SEX TOYS DILDO HARNESS PLEASURE BASE CLITORIS WOMEN PENETRATION Bestseller
    Purple Kiss Strap-On Dildo - Fusion Grinding Base™ - 6 Inch
    $53.95 -10%
    $59.95 You save  $6
     
     
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  15. LESBIAN SEX TOY PLEASURE BASE DUAL PLEASURE HARNESS WOMEN PENETRATION GRINDING DILDO STRAP-ON Bestseller
    Lesbian Delight Strap-On Dildo - Fusion Grinding Base™™ - 6 Inch
    $53.95 -10%
    $59.95 You save  $6
     
     
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  16. SEX ON THE BEACH STRAP-ON DILDO WOMEN  PLEASURE HARNESS SEX TOYS DUAL PLEASURE CLITORIS Bestseller
    Sex On The Beach Strap-On Dildo - Fusion Grinding Base™ - 6 Inch
    $53.95 -10%
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  17. Binding, Trans, Tape, Bold Tape, Transgender, queer
    Bold Tape Waterproof Long Wear Chest and Body Tape - 3 Skin Tones
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    HighHer - Cannabis Glow in the Dark Strap-on Dildo 6 inch
    $37.45 -25%
    $49.95 You save  $12.5
     
     
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  19. Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo Bestseller
    Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    $155.88 -20%
    $194.85 You save  $38.97
     
     
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  20. BeanZe Sunrise Strap-On Dildo - Pleasure Base - Medium Size Bestseller
    BeanZe Sunrise Strap-On Dildo - Pleasure Base - Medium Size
    $41.95 -25%
    $55.95 You save  $14
     
     
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  21. SCISSORING VIBRATOR LESBIAN COUPLE WOMEN CLITORIS PLEASURE Bestseller
    RockHer® 2.0 Mini Scissoring Vibrator - with Remote Control
    $71.95 -20%
    $89.95 You save  $18
     
     
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  22. WondHer Bendable Strap-on Dildo - Suction Cup - Black 7 Inch Bestseller
    WondHer Bendable Strap-on Dildo - Suction Cup - Black 7 Inch
    $47.95 -20%
    $59.95 You save  $12
     
     
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  23. WondHer Bendable Strap-on Dildo - Purple 7 Inch Bestseller
    WondHer Bendable Strap-on Dildo - Purple 7 Inch
    $47.95 -20%
    $59.95 You save  $12
     
     
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    Pack Boxer Harness Black XS-5XL + WondHer Strap-On Dildo
    $87.92 -20%
    $109.90 You save  $21.98
     
     
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FAQ

What type of strap-on harnesses are there for women couples?

There are two main types of harnesses for strap-on plays. Underwear style harnesses, which look like a pair of underwear and range from a variety of styles like boxer briefs, thongs, and boy shorts. Strap-on style harnesses come with adjustable straps to fit with your body shape. These come in thong and jockstrap styles to fit those with vulvas or penises. Wet for Her carries a plentitude of harness styles, from boxer brief, thong, jockstrap, lingerie, and boy shorts. Check out our harness selection here: https://www.wetforher.com/all-harnesses

How is a strap-on harness supposed to fit?

Harnesses should not fit loosely. In fact, you want them to be as snug as possible, like your “best pair of jeans that make your butt look good” kind of snug. The more well-adjusted your strap-on harness is to your body, the easier it will be to move and control the attached dildo when you're pegging or penetrating your partner.

What types and sizes of strap-on fits in a harness?

Harnesses can fit a variety of dildos, from silicone, glass, stainless steel, and pyrex dildos. We recommend using silicone dildos as they are not as heavy and tend to be flexible enough to control for penetrative sex. For beginners who are new to strap-ons, we recommend a dildo that is five to seven inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter. It is always ideal to start off one size down so you don’t get one that is too big. You can also consider texture, so it’s best to experiment with dildos and see which ones you and your partner prefer! We carry strap-on dildos that vibrate, are curved, suction dildos, G-spot dildos, and even trans* inclusive packers which double as dildos. Check out our strap-on dildos here: https://www.wetforher.com/61-strap-on-dildos

Are there any drawbacks to using a strap-on sex toy?

No drawbacks! Only more fun ways to explore and have sex!

How do I use a strap-on dildo? What are the general steps I should follow?

The first step you’ll want to take is adjusting the harness to your body. Make sure to adjust it as snug as you can without it being too tight that it’s cutting off circulation or becoming uncomfortable. Next, you’re going to want to insert the dildo into the O-ring, a hole within the harness’s strap which can fit dildos. Make sure everything is well-adjusted. Afterwards, you and your partner can use lube, with whoever is receiving applying lubricant to themself and whoever is wearing the strap-on applying lubricant to the dildo. Take things slow and be patient and reapply lube whenever necessary. Don’t worry if things start off slow, not everything will remain linear and it is a new form of sexual play, in fact! Remain open-minded and everything should work out great.

What are the benefits of a strap-on harness?

Strap-ons provide a fun and engaging way to explore new modalities of sex with your partner, especially if one of you would like to provide penetrative sex to the other. Strap-ons sex can help improve pleasure for both parties, increase intimacy, and even provide a cool power trip to the one on the giving end. Most lesbian couples enjoy strap-os dildos as they get to see the way their partners react to pleasure. Additionally, it’s a great way to stimulate your G-spot, your P-spot or prostate, or your A-spot and anus.

Can a strap-on be combined with a vibrator?

Yes! And that’s one of the greatest benefits of using a strap-on. Some strap-ons for lesbians already come with vibrating features and provide even more intensity and pleasure for both the wearer and the receiver. You are also free to pair your vibrator sex toy with your strap-on for extra fun. Wet for Her carries a variety of strap-on dildo that vibrates all the wet fun. Our popular Fusion strapon features an innovative style for both the wearer and the receiver. We also carry a clitoris ring vibrator you can plug onto your strap-on for even more fun! https://www.wetforher.com/wowhertm-clitoris-ring-vibrator-plug-on.html

Is a strap-on the same thing as a dildo?

Strap-ons sex toys are a type of dildo which can be adjusted and fitted to a harness. So in a sense, yes, they are technically the same thing. Some strap-on dildos can be used as regular sex toys if you would prefer to do some solo play or use it on your partner without a harness.

TEAM'S FAVORITES LESBIAN SEX TOYS, STRAPONS, HARNESS AND DILDOS

Choosing a sex toy for yourself or a partner can be a little daunting at first. Knowing what sex toy hits the right spots and pleases you or a partner best takes some research, time, and planning. So we decided to help you take some stress off of that decision making process.
Here at Wet for Her, we pride ourselves in living a life of sexual empowerment and wellness. This means being honest and open about how sex toys make us feel – and what better input to receive than from people just like you? We believe choosing the perfect sex toy for the queer community needs insight from, well, the queer community! So we asked our team of employees – all individuals from different walks of life, gender, and sexual identities, what their favorite toys are. Want to get an insight on what our team of employees and sex toy enthusiasts enjoy? Check out the Wet for Her Team’s favorite sex toys, consisting of the best dildos, harnesses, strap-ons, vibrators, and affirmative gear for lesbian, transgender, queer folks, and everyone else in the LGBTQIA+ community! Our team’s choices allow you to go solo with one of our delectable vibrators, or if you prefer to pair it up for some partner fun, check out some of our signature harnesses and strap-ons, specifically curated for lesbian, queer, and transgender couples. Our specially selected products are meant to help you feel seen, centered, and heard. Our team of employees include members of the queer community, sex experts, sex toy industry gurus, LGBTQIA+ and social justice disruptors and advocates, healers, creatives, and heart-centered people! Whether you are in a committed relationship, polyamorous, or single, we are positively prideful our team’s choices are sure to bring lots of excitement (and perhaps even more!) to you or your partner!